Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
hope every one finds what you are looking for and i hope it gets better for you.
me im done. im tired of being down more than up in my life. tried the stupid dating sites. open myself up, throw everything i got out on them and never get a single reply to any messages i send. wasnt really expecting anything out of a dating site tho. just would be nice to have replies to my messages.
im tired of going out and peoples heads turning away from me and not towards me. tired of not having friends. id be happy if i just had one friend. just one person that would text me or call me once a day. i dont even know why i pay for a phone. it never rings, and the few people i try to text never reply. its a paper weight. tired of being totally alone every day and night. ive gone my whole life and never done wrong to any one. but its like i have this invisible bubble around me that repels every one or makes them stab me in the back. maybe im too nice, too honest. maybe i need to be like everyone else. maybe i should be a lying cheating douchebag. seems like thats the type of people every one likes. those people always have somebody.
ive been thinking positive every day. keeping my head high. making every effort, using all the advice i get. nothing changes. nothing has got even just a little better.
throwing in the towel. im tired of fighting every day to keep my mind sane.
me im done. im tired of being down more than up in my life. tried the stupid dating sites. open myself up, throw everything i got out on them and never get a single reply to any messages i send. wasnt really expecting anything out of a dating site tho. just would be nice to have replies to my messages.
im tired of going out and peoples heads turning away from me and not towards me. tired of not having friends. id be happy if i just had one friend. just one person that would text me or call me once a day. i dont even know why i pay for a phone. it never rings, and the few people i try to text never reply. its a paper weight. tired of being totally alone every day and night. ive gone my whole life and never done wrong to any one. but its like i have this invisible bubble around me that repels every one or makes them stab me in the back. maybe im too nice, too honest. maybe i need to be like everyone else. maybe i should be a lying cheating douchebag. seems like thats the type of people every one likes. those people always have somebody.
ive been thinking positive every day. keeping my head high. making every effort, using all the advice i get. nothing changes. nothing has got even just a little better.
throwing in the towel. im tired of fighting every day to keep my mind sane.
since my job closed down and i have to stay with my parents, i have no place for the kids to stay. that is killing me, then to hear her say those things to them, just really pisses me off. as much as she has hurt me, i have never bad mouthed her to the kids. when they talk bad like that about her i always encourage them not to.
she then turned evil and started bad mouthing me and saying i always have an excuse and saying it was my fault. Really? My fault? i wasnt going to give her what she wanted.. a fight. so i agreed with her and said "yes its my fault, that even after you took the kids away from me they still want to live with me and its my fault they love their daddy so much"
she didnt like that. she hung up on me. so now im all sad and down cuz my lil man was crying and i had to break his heart today. :'-(
I was here on this site 4 years ago crying my eyes out because the love of my life (I thought at the time) had left me. I had been divorced, been in 20+ relationships and nobody loved me. I too have a phone that didnt ring. I got into my hobbies, joined dating sites etc hoping to find someone, hell anyone! Just because nobody replies to your dating sites doesnt mean that they are not interested. I noticed one that asked what your income was... Heck I dont make a lot of money but I do ok.. I own a house, car, motorcycle, have some friends but some may see me a looser because of my profile. I dont care... I marched on, lived life, did what some said on here just picked up my arse and moved forward hating my day, my life, my empty being. I tired to date again and found someone... Not the great person I thought they were but someone to spend time with and live life with. Gave up again on relationships but after the 4th year I wasnt looking like others say... now I am close to pusing 50 (just turned 49) and I met the most wonderful person I have ever met. Someone I would not call a beauty queen but a great person inside and out. I wasnt sure about them but I know because I didnt give up that I may just have found the perfect person for ME! I find her beautiful, some others may not but I dont care she heals my heart... makes me laugh, makes me smile, makes me happy I wake up in the morning...
All I am saying is DONT FREAKING GIVE UP!!!! It may not be today, it may not be tomorrow, but it may be a month , 6 months, a year, 4 years from now who knows.. but BE TRUE TO YOURSELF and it will happen...
Like most say it will happen when you least expect it... It never happened for me because I was trying SO DAMN HARD for it to be until I excepted myself for who I am, accepted myself for my faults, my looks, my illnesses (psoriasis), my mind, my soul, my heart. I look ahead and see good things coming unlike they use to. I look ahead and see a future, I look ahead and dream of a better life for me and my new woman/partner/girlfriend and hell who knows maybe my new wife.
I don't know but it looks great from here and I have a new life because I opened my heart and mind and NEVER GAVE UP!!!!
So all i am saying to you my friend is NEVER GIVE UP no matter how hard it hurts!!!
LIVE, LOVE, SMILE and for GOD SAKES BE YOU!!!! There is not another you and someone will grave that being and wish they had them to love...
xoxo
she put my 3 year old on the phone. he was screaming and crying "i want to stay with you, pick me up now. i hate momma" and i heard her in the background yelling "im sick of this shit, all the kids do is holler and cry for you"
that makes the third or fourth time she has done that. i do have to admit, i enjoy hearing them say that stuff. she got the phone and started griping me out. i hung up on her. she called back and i hit the REJECT button.
i sent her a txt and told her that this is not my fault and that she did this and what ever follows she has to deal with. i cant help it my kids love me and want to be with me. they are probably tired of being hauled around in the car all day following whats his name( i used other choice words for him) every where. they are probably tired of living in a "bleeping" motel room. its been 3 months, im sure they want a home. you bad mouth me to them and you are mad because it doesnt work.
the txt was longer and had more slaps in the face, sorta speak. but when i hear them cry for me and there is not a lot i can do right now, it kills me. and what she says to them. how can she trash talk me and lie about me to them? i know they dont believe what she says. but "what if" they do start to believe what she says? when i have them and they say something about her, i encourage them not to talk about her like that.
im a great daddy. the #1 Dad slogan was made for me. ;-p
but after hearing them cry and holler for me makes for a bad night. i dont know what to do. i hate it my kids have to go thru this. it makes my progress start slipping.
3 months now
Just started antidepressants.....just couldn't cope everyday this way
I see her and it just sets me back all over again
I feel like I will be alone the rest of my life....no one else compares