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TOday I get an email from my ex trying to push me into talking to a lawyer friend of ours to see what he would charge to do a non-contested divorce. He would probably just charge the filing fees and that is it.
She has grown impatient and wants to use another lawyer friend of ours who will only charge $550. That is probably considerably more than when the other guy would charge.
She keeps on emailing me and asking me if I have checked with the other guy yet. I told her that I will see him in court on Wednesday and she is still being a pain in the ass.
I finally told her that if she wants to do this so bad and she wants the divorce so bad to go and pay for it her damn self.
Why in the hell does she have to bug me so much. Just go and get the thing and leave me the hell alone. I told her that I have a lot of money coming out in taxes right now because of the friggin property taxes and I don't have any money to spare to go 1/2 with her for a lawyer. She is in such a damn hurry to get the thing it makes you go Hmmmmmmmmm? I wonder why this is so damn important? Come one...Don't send me shit and tell me it's flowers...this definately means she has an OW. Let him pay for the god damn thing if it is so important!
She has grown impatient and wants to use another lawyer friend of ours who will only charge $550. That is probably considerably more than when the other guy would charge.
She keeps on emailing me and asking me if I have checked with the other guy yet. I told her that I will see him in court on Wednesday and she is still being a pain in the ass.
I finally told her that if she wants to do this so bad and she wants the divorce so bad to go and pay for it her damn self.
Why in the hell does she have to bug me so much. Just go and get the thing and leave me the hell alone. I told her that I have a lot of money coming out in taxes right now because of the friggin property taxes and I don't have any money to spare to go 1/2 with her for a lawyer. She is in such a damn hurry to get the thing it makes you go Hmmmmmmmmm? I wonder why this is so damn important? Come one...Don't send me shit and tell me it's flowers...this definately means she has an OW. Let him pay for the god damn thing if it is so important!
Then again, it is a small matter. There are also a lot more important things here. I am not going to be bullied around by my ex any longer and things are going to be done on mutual terms instead of just hers. She always pushed me around and made me do crap at her convenience. NO more because I don't have a pony in this race.
I am enjoying the fact that she is pissed that I am dragging this out. Doesn't bother me because all things will come in due time.