Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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BrooklynnMB 03/02/2014

You've all given me great advice and I'm sorry for not taking it. It's not that I don't think you all had good advice and I took it to heart I really did. Right now though I can't seem to get off my couch. For the last 4 days I've only gotten off for a couple hours at a time. I feel awful. I can't imagine life without him. I don't want to. What have I done. I had my chance to be with him and I blew it.

deleted_user 03/02/2014

You're going through a mourning period. It's normal.

REDOAGAIN 03/02/2014

oh ya, that's going to last a while. I hope you take extra good care of yourself while you do. Don't worry about the little things piling up, take care of the most important things, and give yourself a break. There is allot going on in your hear and mind. It takes time.

BrooklynnMB 03/02/2014

In a way, I feel like I deserve it. I broke up with him and he had this pain last fall. For some reason it just took longer to hit me I guess.

deleted_user 03/02/2014

No matter who initiated it, I think we can all agree that it is hard on both parties. My ex broke up with me and I realized that he is going through his own kind of hell about my situation too. It is normal. You loved the person and no matter the reasons you broke up with him, there was a reason you do it. Try to think back on the reasons why you did. What was it about this person that drove you to it in the beginning. Maybe focusing on the reasons why would help.

SadNLonly 03/02/2014

If that's all you can do then thats fine. You really are mourning right now. My therapist said that somedays just getting out of bed is enough.

Take your time in healing. Baby steps. At least thats what im doing. Its been 3 mo since we spoke and its taken the life and zip right out of me.

deleted_user 03/02/2014

Hey Brooklynn

I feeel yea there the last 4 days for me have been a nitemare from hell all ive done is cry and sleep , and could barely eat didnt wanna go anywhere at all , constantly thinking of the recent break up .

And Im in a sorta similar situation too I hurt6 my guy he wont take me back and he wants to start off slow and not rush things and just be friends.

But I love him and would rather him in my life. So I understand .

hugs

I hope things get better for you as the time goes by and just know that we are all here for you :)

BrooklynnMB 03/02/2014

Thanks. As much as this hurts I feel like maybe it is necessary for me to be feeling right now.

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