Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am being a baby and want to vent. Welcome to my pity party. I hate living in Kansas! I feel stuck here because I don't want to take my daughter away from her dad. She is almost 10. That means it will be almost a decade before I can get out of here. I am going on disability, which means I will be able to live anywhere without regard to employment opportunities, although I will definitely not be rich. I want to be one of the many old people strolling the beach in Florida. I mean if I have to be single, is it so much to ask to live somewhere I like? I guess I should have thought of that before procreating. One of my conditions is aggravated by cold weather and that is just one more reason I want to get out of this place. Well I can't, because I love my daughter too much to do that, but damn, I hate this place!!!! I don't have too many decades left in my life, and it sucks to waste another one in Kansas. Thank you for allowing me to vent!
Thank you all for your kind wordst. The pat on the back felt nice!
I think being "stuck" is how you look at things. Getting involved in thins you like to do can keep you positive and out of the house. We as parents USUALLY put our kids first. I'm with hurt...plot your escape. A lot can happy in 10 years Is there ANYTHING about Kansas that you do like?
What helped me adjust to PA after moving from New York City was I sought out the things that AAA said was so nice about this area. I got the AAA trip book and found some pretty interesting things. I also visited the tourism center and found some thing there. My son was 12 when we moved here and I got a blast doing thing with him. My hubby is a emotional cripple and we live 2 separate lives. I love the Salvation Army, Fairs, Farmers markets, yard sales, camping in state park and I pal around with my kid. Someone suggested taking vacations out of Kansas..that may work, How about helping people or volunteering. You get to meet people nice like yourself
What I think about when I feel stuck is that I ask myself why do I stay?
I am blessed that I have 2 teenagers that still talk to me, still open up to me , when they do fly the time that I spent here will seem like a blink of the eye.
Remind yourself that it ain't about where you are and what you are doing it is about who you do it for and with
Hang in there