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Stopping cold turkey

heartbrok3n
heartbrok3n

Today will be another day of not talking. I don't understand because he went from calling me and facetiming me and instisting we be friends and even messaging me on instagram to nothing at all just like that. I struggle with feeling like he stopped misisng me which is the least of my concerns, but at least when he was reaching out it gave me comfort knowing i wasnt suffering alone. He had been sending me memes on instgram and i sent one back (in a moment of weakness) all he did was like it. No words, he hasnt called, texted nothing. I just dont know how he made the switch so quickly one minute he was sad it was over and really wanted to still be friends and remain close and now he seems to be completely over wanting to talk to me. Any advice on not driving myself crazy worrying about how he feels and why he stopped reaching out to me. Or has anyone else experienced this? When they reach out for awhile then just stop cold turkey :( 

Treh
Treh
what I do for this is just think about if its so easy for them to just cut it off they must not feel any way about us. so I sit on the fact that if someone is rude no just push you away with no remorse then i dont wanna talk to that person anyway. youre worth more then that.
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
Typically this is why nc is best. Often friends won't work. In my case we have kids so there is some contact but all my previous breakup were always nc.
Im-nathan
Im-nathan
You must be strong. Respect yourself, respect your worth. If he doesnt see it, it is his loss.
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