Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Got stood up on Christmas Eve! I am still reeling from my exs infidelity after a 28 year relationship. I made the decision to start dating despite my Divorce Care groups recommendation to wait 1- 2 years. Started dating a younger guy and we hit it off great initially. He even took a couple vacation days to go site seeing with me. He stood me up 10 days ago. We discussed when family obligations come up just let me know. Well, he did it again tonight. We were to exchange gifts today. He claims he was not able to get off of work early so ate with his parents and they are now headed to church. He never texted me until I texted him at 8pm asking if I should eat without him. His longest relationship was 8 mos and I knew that was a red flag but chalked some of that up to his military service and college. Just sucks anyway, but my own fault for jumping into the dating scene too early. Thanks for letting me vent!!
Thank you for your kind words!
I just completed the Divorce Care course/class 10 days ago. It was funny cause I had just cancelled my match.com subscription as I decided to do what the course suggested and concentrate on me when I was contacted by this person and thought what the heck. Thought it would be one dinner and out. We ended up spending a lot of time together and had a ton of fun together but the lack of respect for my time is not acceptable. I was getting ready to just concentrate on my relationship with God but this person has reminded me how nice it is to have a partner (here on earth) to site see with and to get hugs from...I am a work in progress but I will make it. Thank you again for your kindness.