Is it OK to say that I don't miss Soon being here? Just checking to see if it's OK or not to have a different thought.

[FYI: I have no idea what happens here when I am at work, all I know is that I am reading that Soon got banned(?)]

DD how about being a big girl and own up.

I think Soon will survive.

That said, I sure hope he regains all of his function back. Waiting to see how that will go has got to be a lot more difficult.

#26 - "Soon - just as an example is the type of person that is and always has been a straight shooter. You may not like what he has to say but he will own every word of it and you will never question where you stand with him. To state or even remotely imply that he wouldn't is almost laughable. "

I AM REPOSTING SO THAT EVERYONE GETS IT.

Dutch - thank you for saying what no one else will. Kudos to your bravado and loyalty.

jesus christ, I been gone for a couple of months and guys are being plucked off like feathers! Btw hi everybody.

I'm not sure people know what he said. It was directed towards an admin...how could he think that would not get him banned? This has nothing to do with how i or you, or anyone feels about him. It has everything to do with HIS WORDS. No one is a martyr here, come on. Say something that pisses the admins off...that's what happens.

I am a Martyr..... by the way, what is a martyr? I am not that smart and I hates it when peoples heres uses them big words....

Soon disliked me, I knew it, and I did not like him either and the way he said that he is the only one strong enough to tell the truth, but in my thinking it takes more strength to say a kind word than it is to down right blast someone for "gawd forbid" have some pain here and show it.... but that is my opinion, and his is his, so be it.... I have to say it, but Soon will be missed and should of never been banned, and again, that is just my opinion.

I have, in my time here, seen many good people reported and suspended/banned, just because someone didn't like them... period... some of the one's that have had this happen to them, have never and I mean NEVER been obscene either.. it really does depend on who you are friends with... Like I've stated... I have witnessed it many times!

Soon and I did not get along.. ever! That being said, I never reported him and I don't think he ever reported me.. cause if he did, I never heard about it! Running and tattling is so juvenile that I can only laugh at the one/ones that are doing it!

NOD...NOD..Giddy.

GSCH- aren't you the guy who created a new account (with the same name, you sly devil) to call everyone bitches, say you'd never be back, this site hurts your healing, you made such great progress without it, and tell everyone to fuck off?

Then you got banned? Why you still here? Own up.

DutchityDutch is painfully dipolmatic with her posts. She makes understandable posts and explains her point... ON THE PUBLIC BOARD. I don't care if you disagree with it, but your 'own up' explanation just show you are a total hypocrite.

I have no allegiances just cause I click a 'friend' link now and then, and don't agree or blindly defend people's posts.

There is no consistency with people here. I am for free speech, end of. A lot of people died for that for you.

v00d00 - "There is no consistency with people here. I am for free speech, end of. A lot of people died for that for you"

For instance?? Like who?

calling YOU out...

I am a friend of everyone here and will always defend a person's right to what they want to say, good/bad/indifferent. I won't stand for personal attacks - especially if that particular person and I have become friendly outside of DS.

While we're "owning stuff" (or not)....I heard a lot of justifications and excuses from others about attempts to solicit IP address(es) from 2 members (one who is a professional PI. Both confirmed this publicly)...Don't recall EVER hearing the perpetrator owning it, explaining it or apologizing (either publicly or to the person). This event has increased FEAR from unrelated DS members (their words). Nice ownership.

I posted this same thing yesterday and received a warning. Feel free to re-report. The facts are the facts.

*Waving bye bye*!

(Please keep bumping the birthday thread...not mentioning names...as the birthday girl is a true survivor and an example we should all look up to and respect)!

should I or shouldn't I....nah....lol.

I say whatever I want, to whomever I want. I have no loyalty to anyone. I say what I want, when I want, in whatever terms I want. I've been pretty damn offensive and used every possible cuss word invented, in multiple languages, even directed at people individually with names. I've been funny, entertaining, mean, cold, and downright completely nasty to people. Again, no favouritism or loyalty.

But I haven't been banned.

or warned.

I've had numerous conversations on many different levels, in depth and superficial publically and via PM with many different individuals. I've blatently disagreed with peoples opinions publically and privately. I've called people on bullshit.

But again, not warned, not banned, not even put in the penalty box. In ANY of my forms.

I know what the difference is. Wonder if anyone else does?