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Can you give us an update?
Called my lawyer and they scheduled me to come in the next day.
The letter read: Dear Mr.Backstabbing,no-good,broke when she meet you,lieing,cheating,poor excuse for a human being. After reviewing your application for a Home Equity Loan we regret to inform you that we have denied your application.
Thanks to him spendin thousands of dollars on his whore and running up his credit cards, he is screwed.
Haaaaaaaah!
I WAS going to ssay that if he DID open a line of credit against the community equity, it would come out against his share of the settlement anyway, I would think.
Contact Equifax, credit report agency, and put fraud alerts on your account. That way if they try to open credit cards, etc. in your name, you will know about it and be able to stop them.
Stay on top of this; credit can be ruined in a blink of an eye.
My STBX tried to get a "Home Equity Line Of Credit" or "Home Equity Loan" He applied for it in HIS name and under HIS social, but he was denied, not because I was not there but because he had bad credit.
I think what you guys are trying to say that IF he HAD been given the HELOC/Equity loan then the bank would FIRST have to appraise it, then WE would have BOTH had to sign for it????? Is that it????
I'm glad to hear he didn't get the loan... but from my experience, I think he can get a home equity loan in his name only (if he was approved). Filing for a divorce does not necessarily freeze all assets, my X used to tell me that too as a diversion, but it didn't for us.
Lee