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HeaveToo 09/17/2008

Hey Guys,
Could some of you check out this link and see if you get a slideshow that I created. Let me know if you get it and tell me what you think. It is set to the Crosby Stills and Nash song Southern Cross. I still haven't figured out how to put the music in it but the lyrics are there!

http://s296.photobucket.com/albums/mm199/HeaveToo/?action=view&current=7ca7b90b.pbw

deleted_user 09/17/2008

I would suggest, slowing it down a bit... It flashes too fast. Other than that is looks great. Are those your pictures?

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

yeah. Those pictures came from two years of cruising on the Chesapeake Bay. A lot of them are of my boat and only a few of them are of my Aunt and Uncle's boat, Finally II.

deleted_user 09/17/2008

Cool picks... Randy (my guy is also a sailor of sorts) he loves to go to the islands and "bareboat"... The first time he said that to me, I researched it to find out what it was and there was a picture of a bunch of people on a boat naked! I almost broke it off with him then.. he explained what it meant and ok,, I get it now!

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

That is funny. You thought that he was talking about sailing nude.

I have seen a boat full of nudists come by me once in the Chesapeake Bay. It was a disturbing sight. Nothing like 40-50 year old people sunbaithing nude on the deck of a boat to make you want to turn the other way.

My Uncle was anchored out in a harbor once, secluded place, and a boat with Nudists came in and anchored in the general area he was in. He was so disgusted that he left the anchorage and sailed all night to avoid them.

deleted_user 09/17/2008

I was raised near the ocean and spent allot of time out on really big boats. I had friends that were shrimpers and I used to go along to sunbathe on top! No better tan than one off of the ocean! But I have never been on a sailboat.

He still teases me about going bareboating with him... may not be too bad if it were just us! LOL

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

I have been out in the middle of the Chesapeake Bay with no land in sight and no other boats around...My ex was with me and we were still in the "Only married for a few years" phase. That is about all I will say about that!

I would love to charter a boat around the islands but I think that I will just wait until I take my own down there :)

deleted_user 09/17/2008

My advise to you is to not use un-understandable jargon with a new lady, unless you are willing to explain it! LOL

It almost cost us our relationship.. I thought he was a pervert! ;-)

meddle 09/17/2008

GREAT song Heave... one of my all time favs...:)

hurtinandhealin2560 09/17/2008

I agree with Giddy; slow down the pics a bit. But the song you've selected is a perfect choice. It is one of my favorites!

HeaveToo 09/17/2008

Anyone know how to slow the picture rate on Photobook for the slide shows?

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