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Signed Divorce Papers

penquinrbc
penquinrbc
I signed my divorce papers on May 30th but still haven't given them to my husband since he's the one that filed divorce. He went through mailorder. I know giving the papers to my husband will give us both closure and I know it's the right thing to do.

I have it in my mind if I give him the papers he will move on and find someone else but the truth is I know he already has moved on and is trying to find someone.

I don't know how to overcome these feelings. I get anxiety real bad when I start to think this way.
kbbcoop77
kbbcoop77
Well he pretty much made up his mind some time ago you may as well give them to him so he can continue healing and move on with his life.
OLDBIKER
OLDBIKER
I am sorry to hear about your divorce. Trust can be rebuilt but, it takes work. My first wife was a cheater numerous times over and I did my best to try and make it work. My problem was, she did not love me and told me she never had. I married her when she was 16 and pregnant by someone else. He was a married 28 yr. old man. I took the blame and shame because she and I had been sweethearts but,. were broken up when she got pregnant.

I tried for about 6-1l2 years to make it work but, you can't make someone love you. I left after 8-1/2 yrs. and we divorced after 10 yrs.

Life goes on and we must try to make the best of things. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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