No.

If it gives you stress to know he looks at it, then yes. If you can live with it then ..No.. simple really. Good Luck

Hi Hurt: As this bothers you, then I would suggest you put your work on other media where you can control who sees it. He should be moving on and that would include him not constantly checking what you are doing online because it's none of his business. I would move your work to another site without word to him and you can even put on the site that you have moved your work to [and name where you have moved it to] and block him from that new site. It should speak to him that you do not welcome him viewing what you do online and it would make a clear message you are done with him.

Many many hugs and YOU GO GIRL!!!!.

also, I remember a while back that he was looking at your work online and even mentioned it to you. So it would be good to "break" that connection now. Your work is important to you and do this to make you feel better and to tell him NO.

I'd go with doing away with your board for now. In a way it seems like it is giving him allot of power to give up something you have worked hard on, but it is a powerful statement to him about moving on and not clinging to you. Is it a bit scary to you? Like part of you knows one thing, but the other part hopes that if he is looking then maybe.....
It's really hard to sever the last bit, when there is a drop of hope left. I feel for your situation, but know that someone can keep you hanging and waste your time if you let the scared part make the decisions.

Thanks guys. ATGB, my work includes things I have done to vent and are clearly about my failed relationship and how it has affected me. What guy would keep looking at that? It sucks but I think I will take it down. It may be empowering as it means he can't see a thing.
But whipple, it is scary how right you are. I know there is no chance at all (hell the idea that I considered it was crazy) as well as after all this why would I want it?
But you are exactly right. It is cutting off that last tie. That feeling that maybe he feels as messed up as I do. One of those "will they won't they romcom" things. Rubbish.
I have long struggled with the idea that someone I spoke to everyday for almost five years is just shut out entirely. But that to let him in would hurt so much more. And I will not be his friend. That is too cruel.
There is indeed fear.

Although it is annoying that its something I have to consider. On the one hand I think it needs to be done. On the other I shouldn't have to change my boards :/
Grr

The things you say when you vent or talk about your relationship are not his business. He gave up the right to be close and personal with you. Do what you have to so you can protect yourself. It took me a few times before I realized what lengths my stbx would go to in order to snoop on me. I feel much better knowing he is shut out of my personal work now. I share those things with my friends willingly, not someone who wants to snoop through my stuff.

I just don't get why he is even bothering.
He left me. Not the other way round and I don't look for him or speak.
Although I did find out something interesting tonight.
I was wondering how he knew certain things about me and was told one of my friends is still talking to him (though she said she wasn't at all)
Can you actually trust anyone?

I need to let go. I have been figuring out how the last while but I really have to cut that last tie.

I have changed my username instead. I can keep my stuff and assume he won't find it.
As for now, I am going to buy comics tomorrow. Treat myself. Geek out!

People worth trusting are very few and far in between

Cut out that friend that is supposedly talking to him. That's obviously where he is getting his info. Sadly, there are some people that will do that to you and lie to you that they aren't doing it.

And if you are going to change your username, you're going to have to come up with something that he won't even consider. So be really clever about it.

It may be an ego boost to him that you are still struggling over him. Sadly, some people like to know you are struggling over them, and that's sad. But cut the ties of your blabbing friend and changing your username and you'll feel much better.

I have changed it now. The friend I have not spoken to in a while. As much as he is a dick for what he did, I know he does not mean to cause me this anguish. He was never a cruel person. I don't know what is going on in his mind (nothing new) I know he gets no pleasure from me being hurt or thinking of him.

Honestly? I do wish I knew exactly what was going on with him. Why he does what he does. But I doubt I will ever know. So there is nothing else for it. I have told him I will not be his buddy. I will not watch him find someone else who apparently does work for him then have to deal with the fallout when it happens again.

So we shall see what happens. I will try to change up a bit. My usernames different. I will try to be nicer to myself. I will work hard. Come April we shall see what happens.