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My wife and I are separated, as many of you know.
Here is my rub. Her boyfriend lives an hour away, and the nights she dont have the kids, he sleeps in our house so they can drive to work together in the morning (they work together).
I have a problem with this. Look I know they are screwing each other, thats obvious, ive dealt with that. I know they can do it in the car if they want and stopping them from being together in the house wont stop them.
BUT, I have a problem with her having him their at our house. Its our house till the divorce is final, then it will be hers.
For one there is my neighbors who are my friends (or were). Several of them I was pretty close to. Now they see a strange guy leaving in the morning from my house?? What if someone accidentally says something around my kids about it?
I dont know how to feel about this whole thing. Is it too much to ask that she make him go home at night? Or they stay somewhere else, like her driving to his house?
Here is my rub. Her boyfriend lives an hour away, and the nights she dont have the kids, he sleeps in our house so they can drive to work together in the morning (they work together).
I have a problem with this. Look I know they are screwing each other, thats obvious, ive dealt with that. I know they can do it in the car if they want and stopping them from being together in the house wont stop them.
BUT, I have a problem with her having him their at our house. Its our house till the divorce is final, then it will be hers.
For one there is my neighbors who are my friends (or were). Several of them I was pretty close to. Now they see a strange guy leaving in the morning from my house?? What if someone accidentally says something around my kids about it?
I dont know how to feel about this whole thing. Is it too much to ask that she make him go home at night? Or they stay somewhere else, like her driving to his house?
I'm sorry she doesn't think of the kids first.
I told her I dont think its too much to ask that the guy not spend the night in "our" house.
God I mean its bad enough your banging a guy while we are still married, but you cant make him drive home too? Aint like he would say "no then im not coming over."
lol!