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She’s in my dreams

Underland
Underland

I keep thinking about the woman he is leaving me for... she is in my dreams.. I wake up feeling so naked and vulnerable. Imagining... imagining how they are together... I try to draw the pain away... i love curly hair... but now it hurts to see it on paper because of her... I love how beautiful black woman are in drawings... it hurts to draw them because she is mixed... I keep dreaming of how happy they are together.. and I am abandoned by the person I loved most once again.. what's the point of marriage if divorce happens.... what happened to forever and always.... 

MarMary
MarMary
I understand how you feel. My husband slept with and sexted women constantly as I had our children and was literally nursing them. I felt sad and hurt and kept picturing it. But then I got angry. Angry at his betrayal. And I started regaining my self worth. And as I do so, I am learning to like myself again. Please engage in self care and self love because there is no good to come from imagining things.
MemphisWH
MemphisWH
Interesting, writing about your pain and writing about the issues helps.
I always wondered if drawing would help with the pain and grow of self healing.
I hope drawing helps you heal
Biggiesmallz
Biggiesmallz
I feel you so much! I was watching one of my favorite movies today and couldn't finish watching it because one of the main characters looks like the woman my ex had a child with. I felt like I was going to puke.

Even though they aren't together. I keep wondering about her, like are they going to get together now that I'm gone? What is he up to? And for some reason I keep wondering if she hates me.