my question is does she want to do this just for convieniance, like do you support her and live well?

Is she trying to keep her same life and just dump you?

this was a recent problem neither one of us can make it without the other. we have 2 kids and have been together of 11 years it is I fell for the best of our kids and to keep our goals we had set

I would think if niether of you can make it without the other that it might have the possability of working out, but I forsee all kinds of problems.

You would both have to be on the same page as far as each other, if one thinks more highly of the other it will cause a problem. Once one can make it on their own I see them leaving the other in the dust etc.

we plan to be in each other life even after we even after all this is over.And trying to finish a common goal that we had set awhile ago

if you are still trying to be together, dont you think you need time apart to heal wounds so they dont keep opening if you stay together at this point under the same roof? i just dont understand the need for a seperation if you are going to live under the same roof. if you dont need time for healing, why seperate to begin with?

i dont know i guess i hope that she will change mind about the whole saperation thing after she is done with har school

I truely love my wife and I hope that if we can stay in the same house that 1 day see will see that i have woke up and try to work out this marrage and that it doesnt have to end

well if you do stay under the same roof, actions and time are what you need to show.

My wife see's all the good changes I live by now, but it is still too little too late unfortunatly, but these changes where not for her, they where for me, so I continue on with them and it has become the new me.

And who knows, sometime down the road if God blesses me and we do get back together, the changes will help to rekindle what we once had.

i know for me its only been 1 week that it has been brought up in my face