Hang in there akgirl80. You can get through this and no matter what you will have a beautiful baby to love at the end of this. Sending support and hugs to you.

Thank You, I appreciate your kind words :)

I am very sorry to hear this about your marriage and also sad to hear that he is an ordained minister. If he is seeing someone else, he is violating his marriage vows and if he is truly a "minister of the Lord", he is placing himself in the chastisement of the Lord. I too, am an ordained minister and today is my wife and I's 42nd wedding anniversary. I don't know what prompted the separation or what your marriage issues were but, he needs to do some real "soul searching" because something is definitely wrong in his soul. A man called of God, to preach the gospel, does not, in my opinion, leave his pregnant wife, does not want the baby and, wants a divorce. I am here if you need a friend.

Thank You oldbiker. I was very controlling and it got to the point he could not take it anymore. I understand why he left, but wish he would have said go to counselling or I am leaving. June 14th he went to the house packed all his stuff and left. I did not know he was leaving me. The morning started out normal. He kissed me and said to have a good day, so nothing was amiss there. My pregnanfy was a shock for both of us, it was not planned as we never got pregnant the whole time we were together. I agree that he has alot of soul searching to do as well. I told him that I am just schocked that a man of God could just up and leave. He said he is at peace with his decision, which really hurts. He asked me if i would consider placing the baby up for adoption 2 days after he left me. I could not believe what i was hearing. This child is a miracle from God and I would never do that. I just miss what we used to have. He has a 13 yr old son and i have a 7 year old daughter both from previous relationships. He told me that he would never stay for the child and that he is willing to pay me child support for 18 yrs and be done with it. Btw congrats on the anniversary :)

I'm sorry for your pain. I know God must have a purpose for this, but as a human being its my sincere hope that he's not leading a congregation anywhere.

Ordained by who? An online school in Alabama?

He is not currently preaching and hasn't since 2010 I believe. The fact that he knows what the Word of God says about our whole situation is just not right. At this point I fell that he is a fake. Matthew 7:15 - Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

Well praise the Lord for that.

Whatever he is or isn't, he's got no right to be ministering to a congregation.

Even Jesus got angry at hypocrites.

Exactly!!

dude doesn't realized what he has lost when it come to you. I hope you don't think negative on yourself as Im sure within time, you will find someone that will want you and your baby. Just hang in there and hold fast.

Thank you crazydude. I appreciate it :)

I am praying for you. It would be good to seek out a group or organization maybe through a church or pregnancy center to help you go through this. I also believe it is not too later for your husband to see the error of his ways.

Thank You grateful. I have been going to church and seeking therapy. My husband is looking to buy a trailer in the country that is an hr and a half from me, so I feel like thinks are very bleak right now ;(

Oh my... If he would leave his pregnant wife, just imagine what kind of father he would of been. One day I truly believe you'll look back at this as a blessing. I know it's hard to imagine that right now. Stay strong, and concentrate on you and your baby. Here's a quote that helped me. "Don't be upset when someone has been removed from your life, sometimes God takes out the trash for you"

Thank You. That is a great quote, never heard that one before. I know it will get better in time. I just couldn't believe of all times to leave is while I was pregnant. We did just find out we are having a boy. Thank you for your post :)