My wife of 4 years blind sided me this past week and left with my two step children who I have raised for 4 years now. She only took a few things with her to I thought it was just a few day thing. But she came back yesterday cold hearted and took lots of stuff and said we will have dinner tonight and talk. The second she left, she texted and cancelled dinner. 

Leading up to her leaving, we had a great Sunday Easter dinner. Followed by a family movie and laughs. The week prior I had changed the names of the step kids to match our family name. Had family pictures done for memorabilia. So anyways after Sunday Easter dinner we hung the new family picture on the walll. It was a great feeling for everyone. (Everyone as I’d my two boys and her girl and boy) This was the first family picture together with everyone having the same name. So as you can see all was just great!

Little did I know the next morning I left for work she and get two kids left house and to not return. She left and it’s been 5 days now and I am completely lost and heart broken. I don’t know what went wrong to have her leave after so much family moments the day prior. 

A little more about it, in my thoughts is my wife is going through depression after being let go from her job 3 months ago. But why turn away from your biggest supported when in time of need. I supported her completely with emotions etc when losing her job. So my question is what can I do to get her back? (She said not coming back) if not coming back how do I deal with this loss of my wife and two step kids. I am completely crushed everyday and don’t know what to do. My heart is in little pieces...