Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi everyone!
I am new to this. I don't know where to turn or where to go. I was married for 13 years. We just talked about divorce about 2 weeks ago. I thought we were ok and moving forward with plans of starting our business in May, possibly moving to another state. Well, that has all changed in literally 2 weeks (to me). He says he has never been happy in this marriage and we don't communicate well, he feels alone, we are not best friends. Wait....what?.... he says he didn't know what it was until about 3 weeks ago. I am floored, devastated! I don't know who he is anymore. He is not here daily (driver) so it makes it easy to not see him and sad at same time because I don't see him. I poured my heart out to him, asked if we could go to counseling, etc, but he said it would be a waste of time and he didn't see what I was hanging on to. I am unemployed and feel hopeless. No children. I lost both parents so I feel VERY alone and scared. How do I get the will to go on? Everyone is telling me that this is a process and i am in a hallway, but i will be ok and at a new door oneday. I think I need some help. This is too much at times on top of unemployed in Covid times. Any advice?
Thank you for the kind words. I hadn't cried in a week or so then last night I fell apart. I can't take this yoyo feeling. I am so full of questions and just want to run away, but I can't Covid, no job, etc. I just can't take it at times. When will it end and I am better. Praying and praying! I need a hug from somewhere.
Thank you again
Thank you so much! I am just sick of this whole painful process!
Praying for us all that are going through this.