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chrisinvegas 06/02/2016

Yesterday was the kids' last day of school. I work for the school district, so today is my last day of school. When my day is busy, I do much better, but I will have the next 3 months... I work a 2nd job, but that will only be 3 days a week during the summer. I'm a little scared of having so much unstructured time.

I guess it's time to make a list of projects around the house to fill some of that time.

sarahb1985 06/02/2016

I know exactly how you feel. I do sort of okay during the week but weekends just kill me. I get so depressed. I'm trying to have more project lists planned and try to meet up with friends at least once. Bit it's brutal. Hang in there, I am pulling for you.

movingon2016 06/02/2016

For the longest time I have felt the burden of going on. I pretend everything is ok and I put on my super girl panties. I don't have a lot of extra time right now. When i do it feels like i am wallowing in quicksand. I wish I could have some time to myself and do something for me.

Maybe you can do that. 1 day that you are free. Do something for yourself that makes you feel better. Start with something small and keep on going til you can move to something big. Find 1 thing a day you are grateful for.

Take one step. Just take one for now. Dont worry about whether you can take another one after that. Just take one step.

serenityspeaks 06/02/2016

I was working and in school so i had no time to think. Now i do:( but i have been doing stuff with kids like swim alot and started working out. Also slowly getting our place together.

samantha717 06/02/2016

I am in the same boat you are. I've been feeling down all day and unable to put my finger on it. I think you nailed it on the head. I'm going to be sitting at home with stbx all summer. He works from home a lot too.

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