Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So i went to see my inlaws to say goodbye to them. It was the hardest thing i had to do, but it was necessary. I am going to miss them but they are still praying that this can be somehow fixed. But i live in the reality. If you husband is sending your stuff back... Its pretty much over. I know God has a plan for all this but i cant see past what i need to do to pick up the pieces of my life. I do pray that we can work it out somehow but i cant wait for someone to decide if they want me. I need to start loving myself and to push myself each day to accomplish something. I always thought i needed my husband, he did everything for me. But someone once said, i was broken, i got myself home, in a snow storm, got my full time job back and started picking up the pieces of my life.... I did that all by myself.
People need their own identities. Too often couples appear to be one but often that means someone has given up thier identity to help save the relationship. I believe it is better when both people in the relationship know who they themselves really are and their relationship becomes even stronger because of that.
Keep working hard, these situations are really difficult on the mind, body and soul. But we've been given an opportunity to fix, repair and learn who we are. Support groups and therapy really help. Stay strong and positive. -HUGS-