Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Thought i would say goodbye to everyone in this community that have been supportive- thanks for your support- i am leaving though and gonna find one that where people aren't so negative and don't actually cause u to be more depressed... and feel worse about urself- although in my case that is not possible- so thats to those who were there when i needed someone to lean on- for those who weren't- must have ur own demons if u want to judge someone before getting the whole story- thanks for managing to make me feel more horrible than the ugly horrible person i already see everyday in the mirror when i look at myself- take a look at urself- would u like someone to judge you?....
My 2 cents.
S
Good luck to you
Your point of view about this site and the people here is a rare one. I don't know if your experience here was with a particluar person or if you feel we suck collectively as a group. This is something I would have to challenge you on by saying that I have never met a better group of people. I'm questioning just how much interaction you've had here; If you needed help and asked for it. I personally have never heard of you or seen you around. Did you sit back behind the crowd and not say to anyone here that you needed support? Did you only write in your journal and not post messages here on the board. It's very hard for anyone here to judge because all of our experience are so similar. So I really don't believe you were so terribly judged here. I believe at some point maybe someone was too honest with you.
What I have noticed is that there are no pictures of you on your profile. There is infact a picture of the person you love. My first suggestion for you would be to love yourself more than this guy. Did you want us to get to know you or him? I would think staying with DS would be a good idea for you but truthly some people are not ready for DS. DS is for those of us who need understanding and would like to heal. When you are ready to do this I really do wish you would chose to come back.
You have a lot going on and you hav eto believe it's a story worth telling. We all could have lied here. I have said things here and opened up my life to scrutiny. I understand that not everyone is gonna be onboard with everything I say and do. but you never know who out there has the same story as you. If you only knew the things I've told about myself and my life here. Never cared if someone didn't agree and didn't like it, if it helped someone have an understanding. Have patience and get rid of the people in your life and on this site that don't mean you any good.Stop the cycle of unhealthy relationships in your life.
Try again.