Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello Everyone,
I broke up with my ex about a month or so ago. Yesterday I really told her I was done with games. She is with the guy she cheated on me with and it really hurts me. She came over last night to stay the night with me and was texting him the whole time so I told her to leave. I told her if she did leave, that I would be gone forever. It was very difficult for me to say because I dated her for two years and still love her. Christmas is the season of love and giving towards the family. I am truly the Scrooge of Christmas this year because I absolutely hate hearing about buying gifts for your loved ones. It is very difficult for me not to contact her because she was with me for last Christmas.
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Why was she spending the night with you ? That is very strange? Are you still living together?
Christmas is not about gift giving it is about forgiveness and bringing joy to others. You still can have a good holiday, surround yourself with your friends and family and do stuff that makes you happy! Sounds easy to say? I was dumped a few times during the holidays and I never let that stopping me to have fun in a healthy way :)
Just so you know, people who love you don't do things to hurt you over and over again. Regardless of what she's saying, pay attention to what she's doing. You are strong, smart and will get through this. You won't ever find your true love until put this mess behind you. I know you are not feeling it right now, but your future will be filled with love, respect and intimacy at some point in the not to distant future. Stay strong!
Either you break up or you don't, but playing around and spending the night together, etc. you're just asking to be hurt. You need to be smarter than that.
When it's over, it's over...time to mature and get on with your life.
Dude I completely understand where you are at. I am angry and heartbroken but still would bend over backwards for my ex husband. This is my first Christmas without him too and I planned a trip to visit friends for the holidays so I wouln't be alone. Hope this helps.