Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have discovered recently that I once again really enjoy meeting new people; hearing their stories, getting to know them and ultimately becoming friends. I guess I hadnt realized how isolated I had become in my marriage (it was too hard to manage my exs behavior around others- so really just my very close family and friends could be a part of our lives). Now- there is nothing holding me back from meeting new people- and it is so fun! DS has been a great conduit for this as well. I have connected with such wonderful people here- people who are wise and funny and who, above all, are extremely supportive and kind. I am very grateful to all of you. Some I know better than others but everyone has made me feel welcome and accepted- what a blessing this place as been. My question to you really is whether any of you found, that as you emerged from the separation/divorce fog, or like in my case, healed from a pretty terrible relationship, did you find that you were not the introvert you had thought you were? Have any of you tried new things that you never would have had you remained in the relationship?
Yea, I emerged from the fog and back to me. I started the process while still married. The marriage was crappy, so I changed what I could. Myself.
I'm healthier and happier than I have ever been. Sad that I couldn't keep the marriage too, but I couldn't do it alone.
I'll get there and I glad to see you are. It's nice.
(((kdMac)))