Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
You know that you are recovered when you can deal with the ex and feel no anger towards them. My ex actually did a descent thing and sent me some important mail that was delivered to our old house. I am going to send her a thank you e-mail for this.
It is amazing that you can get to the point where someone you cared deeply about is just another person. No matter how bad they hurt you they can hurt you no more and you have gotten your life to a point where you are comfortable with it.
Healing takes a lot of time. A lot of times the other person has moved on faster than we did. They have already started establishing a new life before they drop the bomb on us. This causes a lot of anger and hurt but it does go away and you can move on with it.
In the end it is hard to move on, it takes a lot of time, and it is tough but we must do this. The best advise is that you should just put one foot in front of the other and continue moving in the right direction. No matter how slow you move, eventually you will be miles away from where you were!
It is amazing that you can get to the point where someone you cared deeply about is just another person. No matter how bad they hurt you they can hurt you no more and you have gotten your life to a point where you are comfortable with it.
Healing takes a lot of time. A lot of times the other person has moved on faster than we did. They have already started establishing a new life before they drop the bomb on us. This causes a lot of anger and hurt but it does go away and you can move on with it.
In the end it is hard to move on, it takes a lot of time, and it is tough but we must do this. The best advise is that you should just put one foot in front of the other and continue moving in the right direction. No matter how slow you move, eventually you will be miles away from where you were!
Well I must have a long road to recovery, since when I think about my STBX I still want to throw up and when I see him face to face I either want to throw up on him or strangle him..But considering all he has done to all of the people in his life, I am not sure I will recover enough to be where you are Heave..
Heal, Forgive, but never forget. These are hard lessons but we must learn them to move on.
The steps in my healing now are for myself - in issues that were present long before I even met her. I'm starting to develop a real solid foundation for the first time in my life.
Good post Heave, and all the best to you in your engagement.