Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
The anxiety and sadness are killing me inside. Not even being with my kids is helping me. Im trying to keep up a good face for them. But inside im slowly dying.
If I didnt have my kids, I dont think I would make it through this. Im starting to wonder if they are even going to be enough.
I just dont know how to deal with this pain, guilt, sadness; all of it. Its so overwhelming.
I feel like im pathetic. My wife thinks im pathetic, im pretty sure. So I guess maybe I am.
I wish there was some button inside me, and I could just turn it all off and not care anymore.
If I didnt have my kids, I dont think I would make it through this. Im starting to wonder if they are even going to be enough.
I just dont know how to deal with this pain, guilt, sadness; all of it. Its so overwhelming.
I feel like im pathetic. My wife thinks im pathetic, im pretty sure. So I guess maybe I am.
I wish there was some button inside me, and I could just turn it all off and not care anymore.
I keep breaking down today and my 2 year old son runs over and grabs me some kleenix and just that gesture calms me some.
You are not pathetic, you are just hurt, like alot of us around here. Hope you feel better soon, and get some strength and use your kids love to all its advantages, it may not fill the hole in your heart, but it certainly can make it abit smaller.
I know what you mean. I'm a Dad myself and there are days I feel like shit. I have found a way of dealing with it at least for now. I come up with a phrase like"I can't control it, let it go" and I repeat that line every time I start to feel shiity. Sounds simple, but it's working for me. Just thought I drop you a line to see if that might help you. Have a good one pal. Ken
The universe is showing me that this relationship is not for my benefit. Because my path has been readjusted for my own good, I accept this decision with ease. There are bigger, better, and happier circumstances already here. I trust the universal pattern. I move forward knowing that I am a beautiful jewel who is always discovered by loving people.
You may want to change up the ending for yourself, but I've found that it is helpful. I posted it in the car, on the bathroom mirror...on my recovery blog...
I just got back from taking my youngest to see the Spiderwind (sp?)Chronicles. Was nice to get him out of the house and spend some time with him. Helped me get through most of today. But even in that dang movie one of the story lines is about the husband who leaves his wife and his kids for another woman; and at some point the son finds out he isnt coming back. Made me think of my wife.
I hate feeling weak like this. I want to be strong. She left me at such a bad time. When things are really tough. But she is out having a blast traveling with her new man.
PMPDRVR im gonna look up that book. Thank you.
We're human, we're hurting. We need time to grieve and figure out where to go from here. It's not going to happen over night and it's not going to be easy. But out of alot of shit, beautiful gardens grow. One day at a time man, one day at a time.