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Question for LADIES

Rman
Rman
Hey Ladies,

After you are intimate with a man, do you really find it necessary to talk?
deleted_user
deleted_user
i think we need some kind of assurance that the guy will still be with us, and not just take off after sex. a lot of men will shag and leave once they're done. women dont like that. so silence is not good
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nope......smiling says a lot for me without having to speak words. :)
veeachjay
veeachjay
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deleted_user
deleted_user
I wait until he falls asleep (2 minutes) and then sneak downstairs and raid the fridge. No talking. :P
veeachjay
veeachjay
It's hard to talk to someone who's snoring.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Not with my last partner. I couldnt walk, couldnt talk.
deleted_user
deleted_user
No! Actually I like to pull my skirt down and go home, read a book and go to sleep.... Alone...
:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
LMAO @ Veeachjay!!!!!!

Amen sister.... Amen....
deleted_user
deleted_user
After being intimate I expect a really good sammich and a drink. A girl got to be feed after a workout.

Oh and the only talking I expect after is him saying okay after I announce I'm stealing what ever shirt in his closet I want. Trust me they don't care.
deleted_user
deleted_user
O.o

I missed all the pillow talk. Jaken no lady. OMG I love you more now.
directingpond
directingpond
no, I just cry. lmao jk
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
Talk is overrated...unless it is the dirty kind for round two!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't feel it is necessary to talk, but the cuddling is nice!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Does holding up my rating card 1-10 count as talking?
deleted_user
deleted_user
*LMAO*