Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'll make this short--
Drinking heavily, lying for 20 years, and cheating--not once but twice! The first affair was just 5 years into our marriage and now the second one is with a female that's 20 years younger than he is! She acts like an 8-year-old and I guess that's what he likes. She is also a very heavy drinker. He told me it was over but then I found out after six months that it never ended! He even bought a second cell phone so he could talk to her and TEXT her (he hates computers, texting, etc.--so he's lead me to believe all this time)! I've been moving his shit out and he turns around and brings it back in. He's acting as if everything is just fine and normal. He just doesn't get it. I used to get those back-and-forth feelings because I didn't want my marriage to end but now I don't feel the love I once did for him and I know I need to get out and move on with my life. I know I will survive and things will get better for me down the road. I hope that any of you that are reading this and going through the same thing will realize that we can do this and we will be much better off without him/her in our lives. :-)
Drinking heavily, lying for 20 years, and cheating--not once but twice! The first affair was just 5 years into our marriage and now the second one is with a female that's 20 years younger than he is! She acts like an 8-year-old and I guess that's what he likes. She is also a very heavy drinker. He told me it was over but then I found out after six months that it never ended! He even bought a second cell phone so he could talk to her and TEXT her (he hates computers, texting, etc.--so he's lead me to believe all this time)! I've been moving his shit out and he turns around and brings it back in. He's acting as if everything is just fine and normal. He just doesn't get it. I used to get those back-and-forth feelings because I didn't want my marriage to end but now I don't feel the love I once did for him and I know I need to get out and move on with my life. I know I will survive and things will get better for me down the road. I hope that any of you that are reading this and going through the same thing will realize that we can do this and we will be much better off without him/her in our lives. :-)
It gets rough for awhile before it gets better; indeed we can go onto something better and once you do, we wonder what took us so long?
Be gentle with yourself.