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Just got my proof positive that nice guys finish last.
I dated a girl a few times and I treated her damn good. I paid for everything, never made any advances on the first two dates and let her set the pace. I was cool with her changing stuff around because of the kid and never made a fuss.
She now has a new beau and it surely isn't me. Some bearded red-neck type that gets blasted on the weekends.
C'est la Vie.
Still pisses me off.
The only ones that I get any interest from are the crazy ones and I am living by Vac's rule on that one!
I dated a girl a few times and I treated her damn good. I paid for everything, never made any advances on the first two dates and let her set the pace. I was cool with her changing stuff around because of the kid and never made a fuss.
She now has a new beau and it surely isn't me. Some bearded red-neck type that gets blasted on the weekends.
C'est la Vie.
Still pisses me off.
The only ones that I get any interest from are the crazy ones and I am living by Vac's rule on that one!
It's insane out there!
Hrm....I can't be all that bad.
Okay..one downside is that I do live at home but.....
I have a job
I cook
I clean
I have a boat
I can sew
I am polite
I have manors
I have morals
I am happy with my life
No drama
Never have to deal with the ex
No kids
Laid back for the most part
Must be my looks! LOL.
Hiding in the jungle in the dregs of night.
Steel blades glinting in the pre-dawn light.
Citizens all lying innocent in bed,
With all the garrison guards lying dead.
The signals given that all is clear.
Our ships come round full of bold buccaneers.
We fire a volley to the heart of the town,
We'll own Panama before the sun goes down.
When word went up we answered the call
Heartless bastards one and all
There is no safe place in the lands of Spain
We'll take the ships and we'll own the main.
We are the ones that they fear the most
The Brotherhood, Brotherhood, Brotherhood of the Coast.
Flintlocks loaded, daggers in our teeth
Blood glistens bright red on the dirty street.
To fire and death the whole town awoke,
Ears ringing from the blasts, eyes burn with smoke
We stormed into the town like God's own wrath
And rounded up those people for a fine bloodbath
Then in the church we locked one and all
And turned to the town to make a great haul.
[CHORUS]
We sacked that town for thirty-six days.
When the Brotherhood visits, everyone pays.
We took all their gold and their gems and their cash
And tortured the locals for their pers'nal stash.
As we left that town twas a beautiful sight:
Hundreds of dead with barely a fight.
To make sure the Spanish remembered our name
We lit up that church and we left as we came.
[CHORUS]
As we left the harbor and sailed for the blue,
A great southbound galleon came into our view
That old Spanish flag made our pirate blood boil
And we swore they never would reach Spanish soil.
Their treasure was tempting, but we didn't try,
We just fired our guns and laughed as they died.
Our thirty-two ships they could carry no more,
We buggered those Spaniards on sea and on shore.
[CHORUS]
Look I could say this over and over....I learned I had to step up and realize what kind of person I was that I was attracted to these type of people to do this to me....
I realize putting the blame on others isn't healthy....life is a learning experience....taking some ownership and realizing it's not always the other person but it's a self evaluation about ourselves and why we choose to have these people in our lives. Keep being who you are but put a better radar on who you choose to date.
Heave one day you will have an amazing relationship. I believe that, but takes time, patience, and knowledge.
Take care! :)
My name is Captain Kidd
As I sailed, as I sailed,
Oh my name is Captain Kidd as I sailed,
My name is Captain Kidd
And God's laws I did forbid,
And most wickedly I did as I sailed.
My father taught me well
To shun the gates of hell,
But against him I rebelled as I sailed,
He shoved a bible in my hand
But I left it in the sand
And I pulled away from land,
As I sailed
[Chorus]
I murdered William Moore
And I left him in his gore
Twenty leagues away from shore
As I sailed,
And being crueler still, the gunner I did kill
All his precious blood did spill,
As I sailed,
[Chorus]
I was sick and nigh to death,
And I vowed at every breath,
Oh to walk in wisdom's path,
As I sailed
But my repentance lasted not,
My vows I soon forgot,
Oh damnation is my lot,
As I sailed.
[Chorus]
To the execution dock
Lay my head upon the block,
Laws no more I'll mock as I sail,
So take warning here and heed
To shun bad company
Or you'll wind up just like me
As I sailed.
I'm nearly convinced the trick is to treat her like garbage. Dont call. Dont pay. Maybe even insult her a few times...if history means anything, she'll probably fall madly in love with you!
Mine told me I was perfect for her...but this wasnt the right time. WTF?!?!?
F.M.L.
People -- not just women -- are much more complex than that. You can't just write this off as a "nice guy finishing last."
We know nothing about this other guy that this woman chose beyond a caricature portrait that Heave presented of him.
Life is all about patterns. If something happens once, it is a miracle. If it happens once in a while it is something special, if it happens all of the time then it is a pattern you can identify.