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I want to know...why do we let them have the POWER over us? Whether we left them, or they left us, it seems to me that we are sitting around just waiting for THEM to do something. Good or bad. Most of us want the good to happen. Some of us expect bad things to happen. I am so sick and tired of waiting for him to come back to me with his arms open! I know it will never happen, and frankly, I would probably turn him away if he did! But the thinking and wondering is consuming my thoughts and moods! This is rediculous!
I say we put a stop to this RIGHT NOW!!!
Anybody with me?
I say we put a stop to this RIGHT NOW!!!
Anybody with me?
deleted_user
Right On!! I want my power back!!
deleted_user
I'm so there. I am taking control and doing what I need to do to get on with my life. No longer will he have power over me.
deleted_user
I'll join that club. Time heals all wounds. I've wasted enough time on him.
deleted_user
Yeah! No more free rent in my head!
deleted_user
Each us of needs to choose to get on with our lives. We are in control of our lives. We do have that power. It doesn't have to be big steps. It can be many very small steps and cumulatively that will lead to big steps. But we have to realize that feeling sad, depressed or longing for that person or life we had does not mean losing power. It just means that we are grieving and dealing with emotions. I badly wish I could stop all my crying and emotional swings. Part of the taking power is accepting that these are things that unfortunately are just part of the healing process.
diemjs
Very good, and true kas. Now just jump on the band wagon and join us in saying...I HAVE THE POWER!
deleted_user
i am with ya. my attorney filed today for him to stop harassing me for extra visits, and messing up my schedule. I feel I finally made a right step in having some power, by not giving in to his threats! oh yea, i am so with ya. will need some nudging along the way, but i will try !!!
deleted_user
READ MY POST IN ALSO..TAKING BACK THE POWER!
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