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Positivity!!!

Mari_0491
Mari_0491

Today I'm going to dedicate a post to all of us. To all those broken hearts. To all of us who feel broken inside because of that other person who was not capable of giving us all the love, respect, and lotalty that we deserved. Screw them all! Let's think positive, try to forget about him/her. If God took the person away from us is because of something, I know it hurts like crazy and it's so hard to forget lovely memories and more other staff but it is possible guys. We are capable of forgetting and letting go of what's hurting us. We should smile because we are alive today, we are alive and we can continue living without those jerks who made us cry for whatever reason. We can do it! We can do it guys. Smile for being alive and thank God for removing the rock who was annoying our beautiful lives...


stay positive and smile to the world because who knows if someone out there may fall in love with your smile... :D

Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
Hugs my friend. Yes we will survive and flourish too. One day they will be nothing but a speck of dust in our rear view mirror of life and we should only look forward. I am almost 10 years since I first started on this journey and I can honestly say that I am doing great. It was a rough, long haul but I did it. You will do it too. Learn to love and be your own best friend. Learn to be able to be live by yourself. If the right one comes along, it will be the icing on a cake. Because the solid foundation is already there. God Bless all. hugs.
ripped_my_heartout
ripped_my_heartout
Good for you. I'm a firm believer in positivity. Positive thinking changes something in the brain. Too many negative thoughts just leads you to feeling down.
Stay strong and positive all
-HUGS-
Gregory1
Gregory1
Thank you for your beautiful words. Its so true what you have posted. I have decided to smile again and reclaim my joy. Life is too short to be sad.
Mari_0491
Mari_0491
Indeed! Live is too beautiful to be crying over someone who doesn't deserve it. I know it's so hard to learn how to live without someone whom we thought will be with us forever but it's not impossible. We can do it!!!!!!!!!! Substitute tears for smiles people!!
Misred
Misred
I agree! I'm here to tell you that divorce or break up is NOT A DEATH SENTENCE. You will come out the other end and most likely better off. I sure did (((HUGS))) to everyone
mpd26
mpd26
Thank you for this!!! I just filed for divorce yesterday, and this made my day.
Mari_0491
Mari_0491
I am so happy my post make someone's day.

I have cried so much about my brake up but everyday I wake up I think one day at a time living without him. And next day I say the same and now's been a month and i'm so proud.
Time to time peoplesss time to time...
Ccapril
Ccapril
Awwwww. I love this. So sincere and thoughtful of you Mari
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