Don't do it girl. Don't waste your energy, time and words. They will fall on deaf ears/blind eyes.

Really? If he is so fricking happy with his new gf, why bother with you? He's full of it.

Lol...he needed reassurance that his pee pee wasn't too small? Ha ha ha

This is just an undertow in the recovery process. Trust me....ignoring him will cause him much more angst then a response.

Get this....my ex attempted to reunite with me a couple of times over the past few months. I politely, but clearly told him thanks, but no thanks. He did some pretty shitty stuff at the end of our relationship which left me distraught. I ran into him last week....totally random thing. We chatted for a minute, he, of course, scanned me up and down, and told me I looked great. I said I had to run to a work thing. So I start getting texts from him afterwards. First, an offer to go to lunch to which I replied I couldn't. Couple of hours later, another text...."I don't think it was a coincidence us running in to each other." Oh, and another you look great comment. (The man is about is deep as the kiddie pool ;-) When I didn't respond, I get another text, "Oh, yea, I forgot how stubborn you are." I laughed (as its been a year since our break up) and deleted....knowing full well that would have a much greater impact than responding to his rubbish.

Hang in there. And please don't give the little man the satisfaction of knowing he's tweeked a nerve. If anything, feel sorry for him and his underdeveloped apparatus.

I think he WANTS feedback from you. He wants to make the situation even more heated. To not give him a response is probably the best thing to do. Bc who is he yelling at then? A brick wall. Go and find something you like to do. Make yourself happy. Pamper yourself. He's not worth the headache and anger.. been there, done that. Let him return to his vomit. Be the bigger person. It'll pay off.

You've been given some great advice. Take the high road on this and don't feed his stupidity. He's texting, You can block those. I've blocked the ex, the new wife just in case along with some of my relatives. My life is peaceful and yours can be too. If it was me I would be laughing at the silly texts he sent you. Everyone says I have a weird sense of humor but I laughed thru most of my divorce and the six years after.

Isn't it great that someone that nasty is FOREVER out of your life? Do a happy dance, and delete unread all future emails.

Please go no contact. If you reply to misguided bull shit he will keep attacking you. See I feel he is lot abusive in the sense that he is a control freak and by getting a reaction out of you he has the upper hand. Go on with your life and do what makes you happy. There are a few great guys out in the world yet.

However if you decide to reply tell him you fakes every orgasm and he was the smallest man you had ever been with. That will shatter his ego. Oh and its nice he found someone to pick up your trash. LOL

My ex cheated on me with one of my oldest friends trust me I wanted to go off the deep end I didn't as gard as it was it was the best thing I never did just ignore him unless kids are I volved block delete ignore

ClearDay, I am so very sorry you are going through this.
I hope you can resist contacting him because that is what he wants. If he doesn't get a reaction out of you, I PROMISE it will ruin his whole month!!!! Please do NOT let him win by contacting him and letting him know he still has power over you to make you angry. Keep your power by NOT contacting him!!!!
You will win big time in the end.
Good luck

Wow, thanks everyone.

I had to log off and have a good cry.

I've been trying to control my emotions for so long. I'm like an emotional time bomb.

If anyone knows a professional who helps with dealing with emotions, please let me know.

Talk therapy didn't help. It's the feelings I can't deal with. I'm surprised I'm not a raging alcoholic or drug addict by now.

I just can't take anymore shit from people.

It's like I'm walking around with a t- shirt that says " disrespect me".

Twisty, it's all he cares about. He's 62 years old. Still hasn't made peace with the Penis. So annoying. Like it's going to grow if he asks me one more time. What a waste of time.

Sorry about your prince of an ex. I don't know what they're thinking anymore.

Wouldn't it be great if he could see the text he sent you in x months or years down the road, when he's no longer with this super girlfriend? See how he's added her to his list of people he hates and considers bitches? But ahh, he'd never see it, it'd be a waste of energy on your part. Sounds like he can't be happy with anyone. He's trash, nasty hurtful trash. Garbage pick up day for me is Tuesday, so make sure you put him and texts out the night before your pick up day.

Be gentle and kind to yourself and dont
Beat yourself up. We are all doing The best
we can, when i was grieving i did A lot of deep
recovery work, God was holding Me. In many
ways it was very cleansing.

I miss when i was deep crying it really released
A lot of pain, hurt, anger, rage, betrayal. I cry now
But i dont get that release like before.

Stay no contact he is sending out the "HOOK"

Hugs

damn girl... I am glad you got this out here and had a good cry. I know what you mean about beatin' down. I mean, I can't say I know exactly how you feel and all you are going through, but I get the hey everyone, come disrespect me, Im cool either way. It gets tiring after awhile and the only reaction most will have, is the one you displayed here.

I dont know how I would react, well I do, my ex after 7 years wrote me a message on facebook along with her married old man, I just ignored it. Well, I didn't ignore his. I told him to go Fuck his olf self and blocked him. Her, I just ignored the message and haven't been on Facebook since.

I guess in some ways, people will say you are not over him. You are this or that, but seriously, who likes to take shit all the time? No one. Thats the bottom line and problem. Its hard to find that balance when you feel attacked by people. The easiest thing to do is to shy away from it. I guess at some point tho, you will be able to find that median for yourself and learn to deal with what comes from idiots like your ex, finding your voice and making sure they hear it.

I am unsure the reason for his email, I mean, if he is so happy with his new chick then why is he even writing you?

Either way, I hope you just deleted the email. Dont give it any of your time or focus cus it isn't worth the penny I found on the ground at the gas station today.

*bear hug*

Can you Block him & not give him anymore of your precious attention, time, or thoughts?

Thank you everyone for the support. Had a little emotional melt down.

I don't normally curse and rage. But, like men who were taught not to cry, the anger can build up.
I've literally had panic attacks from pent up feelings.

I need to find better outlets.

Thanks very much :)

Aw Clear, hang in there! It will get better and venting is usually an integral part of the process. Chin up lady. Hoping your today is more peaceful. XO

Thanks twisty :). I'm emotionally exhausted today, which is good. Better than a raving maniac.

Thank you:)