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Rman 03/19/2009

Some guy at my 2nd job this evening, told me to "play it cool," regarding my current situation. I'm not even sure what that means? I might put on a leather jacket and act like Fonzie..."cool."

BirkenstockBabe 03/19/2009

Aaaaaaaay!!!

deleted_user 03/19/2009

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkdP02HKQGc

deleted_user 03/19/2009

interesting advice.....

Rman 03/19/2009

I can't understand how people thought Fonzie and West Side Story were "cool."

deleted_user 03/19/2009

Yeah get used to getting crappy advice from people, let it go in one ear and out the other.

deleted_user 03/19/2009

West Side Story was kinda cool, in a dysfunctional murderous sort of way.

deleted_user 03/19/2009

Sorry...i didn't mean i was agreeing with your co-worker. I just thought of that scene. But, i have to admit i grew up thinking the jets and sharks were pretty cool :)

Rman 03/20/2009

I just never got advice to play it cool before. What is not playing it cool?

deleted_user 03/20/2009

I'm betting what he's really asking is for you to pretend everything is normal and good, because he's uncomfortable about what's happening to you and doesn't know what to say to you.

deleted_user 03/20/2009

I think "not playing it cool" might be calling the ex 20 times a night, crying and begging.

Or you should act more like Potsie....or Ralph.....or Al

deleted_user 03/20/2009

If I remember correctly didn't you just pick up this second job? If so maybe your coworker is giving you a heads up on how the politics work there. If your corporate they don't want to know anything about you, just fly under the radar kinda thing.

If its not that type of situation maybe he is just weird and you need to move to a new lunch table lol Hope everything works out :0)

Rman 03/20/2009

I can dig it.

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