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OT - Will she come back?

Rman
Rman
No One knows...
deleted_user
deleted_user
@OP - Nope.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Are you scared to have your wife leave or you leave her?
deleted_user
deleted_user
No, why? Would you come back to anyone, you had left behind?
Misred
Misred
I miss the man I married too. He will never come back.....I know how you feel hun. ((((HUGS))) People change....I suppose I have too for that matter. What about you? Have you changed?
adairjm
adairjm
FWIW...I hope she does. You being here like you have shows how much you care for her. And still care.

Will she? I don't know. My opinion at this point is to exhaust all avenues of staying together before moving on. Fight for your relationship, so that on your death bed you can always say "I tried for us". That doesn't mean grovel, beg, whine, text incessantly, etc. However, it also doesn't mean let pride get in the way of something that could be. I've learned that lesson the hard way and it sucks.

If she doesn't come back, then stand tall and move on. Good luck. You're not alone on this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I say give up. We do take things as they come, but nothing back, there. Bills? Nice, who do you love?Life with bills, or wife? That is clear, she knows it, fucked up? What to do? God will tell you. Why would you want all, with no love? KIDS, DON'T CRY.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why do you want her back anyway? Not a game, for now, hold her tight, if possible, be over nice, if permitted, suck it up to have, what you don't need back.