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OT - Where do DS rejects go?

Rman
Rman
I'm pretty much a DS reject. I've been on this site for almost 2 years, followed no ones advice and find myself exactly in the same position I was when I got here...I'm a DS reject. So what the fuck do I do now?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Spend your days at Hollins St. Pub?
LKess
LKess
eat tacos and pizza.
deleted_user
deleted_user
How bout trying to take the advice? ("Insanity is doing the same thing everyday and expecting differnt results").......Or you could just forget the whole thing and join a cricus. ;)
Misred
Misred
The island of misfits?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SH1j1luFOw
MsViv
MsViv
Take a deep breath and do what you know has to be done.......You can do it... I have faith in you.......
deleted_user
deleted_user
what does your heart say to do?
llmt
llmt
Well...reject is such a trigger word I am sure, for many. But, I am here or having a beer.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You either sit and stew in what you deem your pathetic reality, or you grow a set.
Rman
Rman
Guess what the "R" stands for in Rman?
MsViv
MsViv
Romantic?
Rman
Rman
Nope. Rectal exam.
MsViv
MsViv
Ruthless?
Rabbi?
Racehorse?
rat-a-tat-tat?
Radio?
Reality?
Reckless?
Reconstructed?
Reefer?
Refreshing?
Rman
Rman
or reefer...
MsViv
MsViv
Okay reefer man.. this is what you do. You stand on your own two feet. You write out your lists of pros and cons of why you should stay. Then another pro and con list of why you should go. Then you look those lists over and over.

Then you talk to your wife. Tell her this is what I like, this is what I don't like. And the two of you figure out how it's going to get fixed.

Now go start on that list. damn it.!!!!!!
Rman
Rman
I have a pee-pee.