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OT - The "maybe" carrot

Rman
Rman
"Maybe." just keep doing what you're doing and there is a chance that I might end up loving you again..."maybe."

Me: 'So how long do I have to wait?'

Her: "I don't know."

Me: 'haha...dumb.'

Her: "my vagina is made of diamonds."

Me" 'i have a pee-pee.'
deleted_user
deleted_user
Usually when people start playing the maybe game they are also playing the field.

The risk you take is waiting years only to find out the love never returns.
Rman
Rman
I guess I'll just start having random sex with women, then...
deleted_user
deleted_user
from what i can see he is going to take it forever because he thinks his marriage is something magical or different than anyone elses and that the wife is a princess. he talks about having a penis (or pee pee as he calls it) from what i cans ee, he really doesn't have one, he might have once but he seems to have given it to his wife.
deleted_user
deleted_user
MAYBE...thats not a good idea...meaning the random women thingy...

Are you whipped Bro? Are you still in love?

If so, then wait...and see what happens...don't stand idle and let her come to you...you have to show initiative as well!

my shiny nickel's worth..
Rman
Rman
Repy 18...they have this new thing called "anger management" classes, ya' know?
deleted_user
deleted_user
haha@18

Yo Rman..you gonna take that from a Raggedy Ann Doll lol joking...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Rman, tough love coming up here. She will keep dangling as long as you keep letting her. My Mom had an expression, "Fish or cut bait." It's time for you to cut bait.
deleted_user
deleted_user
@18, rman: Anger Mgmt board here on DS. Could always use new people :D
adairjm
adairjm
OUCH! Are they sharp diamonds?

That could hurt!
deleted_user
deleted_user
If this is what you are putting up with then I guess I can understand why you are here on DS.

Time to kick her to the curb. Sorry that you're son will be hurt but perhaps he is being more hurt the way things are.
scarletjaded
scarletjaded
What exactly, is so beneficial about having a diamond vagina? It doesn't sound very inviting.... Or maybe that is your wife's point? Is she uninviting you to her vagina?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Her: "my vagina is made of diamonds."


Now that is true "vajazzling" lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think the reference to genitals is another way she is manipulating him and leading him on. She thinks that her vagina is something fabulous and valuable, while his parts are base and undesirable. She's telling him how fortunate he is just to have the prospect of some day being able to possibly have sex with her again...

or maybe I'm reading too much into it...
deleted_user
deleted_user
*thinks without getting to Dr. Philisophical*

...basically she is saying "nah nah nah nah nah nah..you can't get none"
adairjm
adairjm
I just think the reference makes my tongue hurt.