Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What kind of attention are your seeking and are you seeking attention from just anyone???
I like attention, but I would prefer it from the person I chose to spend the rest of my life with.....everyone else......who cares.''
Be yourself and you will find what you are seeking!!!!!!!!!
So sure, here on ds, he gets a lot of attention. But that doesn't mean that he does in real life.
And me...I honestly don't get much attention in real life. I never had anyone take care of me when I was sick or hurting until my kids came along. I got hugs last night for stressing over my test that made me cry.
I had a ds friend willing to drive to see me when they thought that I was going to try to 'die' that night. (I was really saying that I was going to Dye my Hair!! LOL) And it made a Huge impact on me.
I'll probably always be a giver rather than a receiver. I just don't know how to do the hurt damsel, please rescue me thing. And I tend to try to see the bright side of things, and how I can do More, rather than less.
But I don't know that anyone will ever treasure ds hugs more than I have.
I told a couple friends that we should all get matching underwear with red hearts on them to wear....I wonder what the reaction would be??