@ Chi - J'accuse!

*Kidding, I don't know any background here. Figure a misunderstanding between you and SD*

I don't know either Oj... just continue to recieve nsaty pm's with accusations, accusations when I post, and so on... whatever

it is what it is..

nasty = nasty

Nasty p-ms suck. I prefer to be out in the open. Faults and all.

*Not to incite riots, but open exchanges*

you really want to do this here Chi?

haha i feel this way when i see my patients in the grocery store or at the mall. they remember me, and i have to act like i remember them.

SD, you brought it here... as you have before, and I said nothing... until now. I finally just responded after months or many Pm's and comments to my posts. I have not once responded to your accusations. nor am I one to bring drama to the board like some.

do what you want. I care.

I mean I tried to be civil, tried to handle it in private, but your silence spoke volumes. If I'm the asshole fine then I'm the asshole. If you took anything I said the wrong way, then I'll own it. This is DS...not facebook. So when I post painful angry threads first off I'm not directing it at anyone here yourself included, but I suspect you took them that way. And second you're a CL - sarcastic remarks are out of character for you. So let's clear the air on this now.

And I've always had a lot of respect for you as a CL. I TOLD you that.

But I enjoy digging into peoples lives.

what you suspect, percieve or think is not my problem of fault. I can't always tailor what I say based on that. I have been silent for much too long while you continue to badger me in PM's and on the board. I don't engage in this type of behavior.

I am a member first, CL second. I have every right to have post to fun threads, be sarcastic and feel off. Just like every other member.

You don't even know me, or have cared to get to know me, so how do you even know my character. You just assume and fire.

you have never said that to me. but whatever...

Oh you never received this?

To: Chitownbear
Sent : 5/8/10, 8:30 pm
Subject: Hey...

What's up Chi,

I need to ask you something. I've been here about 6 months now and have always had a lot of respect for you. You're a hell of a community leader and your advice is always right on target.. But it seems like you've fired off some rather sarcastic comments toward me in the past and I'm wanting to know exactly just what it was I did, if anything that provoked that.

If I'm wrong on this, tell me and I will graciously eat some humble pie. I have the bad habit of takin things personally as you know.. Like for example the bandwagon comment. Don't know if it was directed at me or not, but in defense of the people I call friends here I needed to say something. Note too that my posts are not a classless attack. I don't get why Paul keeps doing this. It's threads like this that make newcomers run for cover.

Anyway I just want to avoid any misunderstandings. I got my demons but I think I've been very forthcoming in my association with the folks here.

Regards,
SD40 (Jeremy)


That look like badgering to you?

Looks like you cant take criticism

First time I have seem that PM. but whatever... You know what you wrote, I know what you wrote.. so you continue to show one side to everyone else and the other to me...

I am not going to go tit for tat, nor will I post the other Pm's. I engage in pissing matches. I walk away, which I have tried to do, many times. Yet you continue to poke.

I meant; "I don't engage in pissing matches"