Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 10/27/2010

Dear wife,

I wish you didn't stop loving me. You broke my heart. I thought we were going to be together forever, but you have had a change of heart. I'm sorry for all the things I may have said to hurt you, but do know...that should you ever want to get naked and hump, I'm here for you...

Love,

Rman

deleted_user 10/27/2010

Dear wife,

Thanks for all the good stuff, now go away and pick on someone else and make them sad.

Me

deleted_user 10/27/2010

Lac no i dont hun.I would have to write a book to feel better lol...

deleted_user 10/27/2010

Dear N,

It is ok, you worried I would hate you but quite the opposite really. I'm having one hell of a time getting over you. You told me to find another but it is not easy when I have no one I could imagine better than you.

You needed to do what you needed to do. Took courage for you I guess. I hope you're finding what you wanted up there. I still find it sad.

MsBlank1 10/27/2010

Dear Me,
It's about time you stood up for yourself and are doing something with your life. Sometimes you are your own worst enemy, but you are also your own hero! You make me proud!

Love Always,
Maggie

*OMG...I haven't used that name in years which by the way is not my real name.
Thanks Rman...I needed this and I wish you only the best
((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

deleted_user 10/27/2010

nice twist Maggie :)

Karenhopeful 10/27/2010

A few weeks ago, when I was rather annoyed with my STBX I wrote the email that I would love to be able to send but never would! It felt great to be moving on......no longer wallowing in confusion, pity and pain, but starting to get angry!

Dear XXX,

I think you are a total fuck up and complete asshole. I can't understand that I ever even held your hand much less had sex with you--a thought that I cannot dwell on too long because it disgusts me.

I am so much more than how you treated me in the marriage. I am an amazing marvelous woman who will come out of all this pain so much better than how I have gone into it.

You are an absolute low life form that needs major evolution! The children that I have from the marriage are the only good thing out of you. Thank goodness they are under my tutelage where they will become the fabulous beings they are meant to be.

If I could I would never have anything to do with you. However, I know that the day will come when the children will see you for what you are.

You are a selfish bastard and I am glad to be rid of you--I look forward to the day when I am completely rid of you.

Karenhopeful 10/27/2010

However, I actually like the idea of writing to myself better....

Dear Self

I appreciate that you are working hard to overcome that which caused you to get into the relationship. You are learning to take care of yourself.

Keep on loving your children with all your heart. Keep on learning to be the mom they deserve to have in their lives.

Most important, forgive yourself and your husband for the past and move onto the future!

You are a fantastic person! Keep on keeping on!

Love,
Yourself

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