Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I thought today was going to be a good day. After my dream about my ex night before last I had a good night last night. Then just a minute ago I opened my facebook and in my inbox was a message from him.
He wants to know where we stand. As if I hadn't made the clear before. And says that he is a totally different person and that prison was a positive experience for him. Really he expects me to believe him? Then he is trying to tell me how I look great and that he has lost over 100 pounds.
I don't want to deal with this, it hurts too much. Part of me wants to ignore him but the other part wants to tell him off and tell him if he keeps contacting me that I will get a restraining order. What do I do??? I just focking knew he would contact me when he got out, I knew it.
He wants to know where we stand. As if I hadn't made the clear before. And says that he is a totally different person and that prison was a positive experience for him. Really he expects me to believe him? Then he is trying to tell me how I look great and that he has lost over 100 pounds.
I don't want to deal with this, it hurts too much. Part of me wants to ignore him but the other part wants to tell him off and tell him if he keeps contacting me that I will get a restraining order. What do I do??? I just focking knew he would contact me when he got out, I knew it.
So glad you are in a safe place and he would not just show up.
And what if he's changed (probably not) - so have you. You are a stronger, more aware, more respected, and vital person b/c you've had to grow through the process. You can't move backwards. Hugs to you.