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I guess THIS is the last straw and I've finally willing to accept it is over.
All his yelling wasn't enough. Smacking my kid wasn't enough. Kicking him out wasn't enough. His moodiness wasn't enough. My deep exhaustions wasn't enough. Him running me into dept wasn't enough.
His pleading kept me in the game. My ideolology that things could be better kept me in the game. I 'love you' kept me in the game. "Sweetie, I can't live without you' kept me in the game.
but today before he left for the day......he left his facebook page open on my computer......
I found out tonight that I'm not the only one that he calls "sweetie". Infact while I was arranging his birthday party last December while we were living together, he was flirting with another woman and trying to get her clothes off. Oh, that is just to start......
I am a very stupid woman. No one has ever hurt me this bad.
Tomorrow I call a lawyer. Tomorrow evening I will be photocopying all his tax receipts and personal information and any other evidence I need to prove how useless to the household he has been all these years.
Then I will be cancelling Couples counselling and signing up for personal counselling instead.
Angela
All his yelling wasn't enough. Smacking my kid wasn't enough. Kicking him out wasn't enough. His moodiness wasn't enough. My deep exhaustions wasn't enough. Him running me into dept wasn't enough.
His pleading kept me in the game. My ideolology that things could be better kept me in the game. I 'love you' kept me in the game. "Sweetie, I can't live without you' kept me in the game.
but today before he left for the day......he left his facebook page open on my computer......
I found out tonight that I'm not the only one that he calls "sweetie". Infact while I was arranging his birthday party last December while we were living together, he was flirting with another woman and trying to get her clothes off. Oh, that is just to start......
I am a very stupid woman. No one has ever hurt me this bad.
Tomorrow I call a lawyer. Tomorrow evening I will be photocopying all his tax receipts and personal information and any other evidence I need to prove how useless to the household he has been all these years.
Then I will be cancelling Couples counselling and signing up for personal counselling instead.
Angela
We're here with you every step of the way. Game over. It's time to rebuild your life on your terms.
Such an inspiring post.
good luck tomorrow.
xoxo