Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my husband is leaving me. He has a girlfriend of 12 years. I have been in this group for years, alot of times being yelled at because I wouldn't get the divorce, and people being frustrated with me.
But now, he is going.
I am at my wits end, not because he is going, but because I have no one.
Not one person, zip.
2 cats and a dog.
That is it.
If I died, no one but my pet would know.
why am I still alive.
people here no my situation, and yet, not one calls.
the end for me.
But now, he is going.
I am at my wits end, not because he is going, but because I have no one.
Not one person, zip.
2 cats and a dog.
That is it.
If I died, no one but my pet would know.
why am I still alive.
people here no my situation, and yet, not one calls.
the end for me.
it's a new beginning for you. A chance to make a fresh start. An opportunity to become the person you want to be. And you can do this.
Easy? Hell, no. Doable? You betcha.
See about getting some counseling to help you deal with the divorce and more importantly, with your lack of self esteem. See if there are any divorce support groups in your area. Get in to a church. Get out and meet new people. Leave your comfort zone...just a little. Baby steps!
Think of things you might like to do and then do what you can to make them happen. Take a night class at college. Or a photography class. Find your niche. Explore.
You can do this. How do I know? Cause I did it. And many many others have done it.
If you constantly rely on others for your happiness, you will never be happy. It's time to be alone and look to you for your own happiness. To learn to love yourself, you will learn that being alone is nothing to fear and you will find your independence and a whole new wonderful life.