My girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago after 3 years together. She broke up with me in March even though were were together on Valentines day and she wrote me a beautiful card and said she loved me to the Moon and back.

There is so much more to this story which I will add later. When she texted me in March after a wonderful Valentines day together she said she was unhappy and had been unhappy for a while and that nothing had changed since we had gotten back together In January. This is even though when we got back together after she moved in to her new apartment I helped her return $2000 dollars worth of furniture back to Wayfair and then bought $2000 dollars of good furniture, hauled it all up the elevator to the 20th floor, boxed up her new cheap furniture, paid the shipping cost, paid the elevator fee of $150 dollars and literally had to build cardboard boxes for the furniture to be returned in since she had thrown the boxes out already.

After she texed me that she didnt want to see me anymore she said not to try to call her or text her or come by and to please respect her wishes. Although I was devastated I left her alone and then about a week later she called me and we have been talking for the six months since. She is seeing someone else but she kept telling me she missed me and sometimes she video calls me and flashes herself naked when she is in bed. As early as two weeks ago before her birthday she texted me the night before her birthday and told me Te Quiero and I miss you. Which means I love you and I miss you. Of course then she disappeared for two days when she went out on her birthday with this other guy but by the end of the week she was calling me again.

As early as last Saturday she was heading home from work and told me she was getting in the elevator and would video call me from her apartment when she got up there. When she did call me she was changing her clothes and waved the phone around to show me herself naked and then said she had to go pick up some food. I didn't hear from her that night and then while she was driving in to work she called me from the car even though I had tried to video call her an hour earlier to see if she was lying to me about going to pick up food and had gone to spend the night at this new guys house instead.

Now she has really cut me off and stopped calling me after that last call when she was on the way to work. She claims she fell asleep binge watching Netflix and eating the takeout she picked up but Im sure its a lie. Although our conversation was kind of tense when she was driving to work because she knows I am mad and she is hurting me but I don't know why she would keep all of this up anyway. I thought it was because things werent working out with this other guy but she not coming my way so I guess actions speak louder than words. She says the door isn't closed between us and that in a month or two she might just show up at my door if I take care of the things in my life she was unhappy with. I will elaborate more on that in my next post. I miss her dearly and my phone hasnt rung all day and she was my life and now i am this pathetic loser that got dumped wondering what I did wrong other than love this woman with all my heart and try to take care of her. She owes me $13000 dollars I helped her with to get two dental implants and a boob lift plus the furniture I bought her and the $2500 in credit card debt she racked up in my name. When is enough not enough?? I thought she loved me for me but I guess i was a fool.