Why do you say nobody cares? Who is it that you want to care that you don't think does?

no one cares about me either, but unfortunately, I am still hre....

I care. Please talk to us, tell us what's going on.

I understand the feeling my friend. But there is always someone who cares.
Honey you have been a great mom and a victim of so many bad things.... but that does NOT make you a bad person. It makes you human.
Please find anything that gives you comfort and come out of this hole you are in. Cry if you must. I'll cry with you.
Be strong. I'll message you in a minute.

i can soooo relate to "nobody cares" but the truth is...... somebody does care. i have learned that the one person that you need to care is yourself. and guess what. you do care, cuz your here.

my ex has made me feel that there is not a single person in this world that cares. i cant trust anyone becuz of what she and so called friends have done to me.

just cause they dont, doesnt mean that nobody does. EVERY ONE ON HERE CARES.

descibe what going on means to you.
if it means going on in a relationship in which your partner is not acting the way that they should (repecting you)
the good, don't go on
Redefine what going on means to you
ther are people that care, people you know and peaople that you have not yet met.
Go on, get out of the dark place,
Go on, you are so very worth it
go on now

I recall this is the person who has the husband who was involved with his adult stepdaughter (your daughter from another man).

You are separated from him.

He was calling and telling you all mean sorts of things. You can block him from your phone and from your e-mail and from any Facebook you have and remove yourself from his Facebook.

YOU have to be willing to value yourself enough to say no to his verbal abuse and block him. If you don't know how to block him, check with the service that provides your telephone and ask them.

He will continue until you tell him no and take action to stop him. You can do that.

Twiggy, since you spoke up, did you retain the attorney yesterday as you were going to?

Yes you can go on......there is a reason you are going through this,,,,just like us all. God doesn't make junk.

man girl, everyone here said it so well. WE all care about you, and love you, YOU care even if you don't feel like it right now. And that's ok. You don't have to let your emotions run your life, bc if you do you will be a hot mess. LOL. Seriously, feel your emotions, express them, but sometimes our emotions do not tell the truth. If you feel unloved, unworthy, hopeless, unneeded, like no one cares if you live or die, worthless, they are all feelings, but they are UNTRUE. I am not devalueing your emotions, you cant allways help how you feel, but you can help what you allow yourself to believe. And YOU ARE WORTH IT. Every tear, every smile, every hug, every breath. And I know I don't know you well, but I love you, and I am hurting for you. Please feel my hug that I am giving you right now. Sit down and write out all the things in your life that you are thankful for, all the good things about yourself that you love, then give yourself some comfort and acceptance. Don't be so hard on yourself. All that grace that you give HIM, you need to give YOU. Hang in there girl, its not for forever I promise.

went to bed early last night feeling sorry for myself. He wont admit to anything. Its like nothing has happened to him. I know I don't want him back. I have decieded that much. When I feel strong he weakens me. The awkward thing is he helped me set up my own business and paid for the machinery. I left a job to do this with pressure from him. I was unsure at the time if the business would work. I rent the shop, which is in my name. only my name is on the biusness. He now wants his name on it. I have refused because this job is now my income. He made me leave a job to do this. The shop is now established. Its not making mega bucks but its surviving as im still building it, He has a job and a flat which he owns. he had the flat before I met him and he rents it out. He is now lliving back there. I live in private rented house with my son. I have lived here 9 years been married for 4. was on my own for 10yrs before I met this man. survived on my own with my son then and cant understand why I cant now. He is demanding I put his name on my shop.and calls me mean for not sharing. If he hadn't tried to get off with my daughter and I trusted him, then there wouldn't be a problem. I don't trust him now and im scared as it is that hae will try get half the shop. I have told him leave the shop alone and I will not want anything from his flat, I am not interested in taking his flat off him and want him to leave my little business alone. even if in time I could afford to pay him back for the machinery. I am a dressmaker. "

everyone in the world can care about us, but when the one we really want to care, doesn't appear to care, it seems like no one really cares at all. But as you can see, that is far from the case. Once the dust settles you will be able to embrace the many that care and not just the one who doesn't.

He won't admit to anything and it appears like he thinks nothing has happened to him because that is how all liars appear to act, especially when they are caught. Its unfortunate he won't take any responsibility at all, but that is how he is choosing to play this. Things could go such a different way if he would man up... shit, if he was a man in the first place and didn't engage in the shit in the first place.

But you now know what you are dealing with. So its smart to continue to protect yourself and your new business. Don't make any changes to anything in regards to taking his name off or putting his name on. things will work out during the divorce so make sure not to sabotage yourself by thinking , being pressured or trying to be "nice". He will try some bullying tactics to get what he wants, (if he is the guy we all think he is). So stay strong, don't let him get to you. I know it hurts... just continue to stay strong and work your way thru this mess as best as you can.

He is very strange. I don't think he likes the fact he is not in control anymore. But is still controlling me in a way I suppose. He has done a lot for me but taken my trust and confidence in return. He has made me a nervous wreck and his controlling ways make it hard for me to be without him. I know I have to try to go it alone . I hope that I can stick to guns this time

We will do it together. ok?
I will stick to my guns and you stick to yours.
Big Hug

Yes you can. You've made it this far and with all of our support you will make it one more day. I'm sure you have a hidden supply of strength you just need to think of something positive, something that does make you happy and put one foot in front of the other and just keep going. Hugs and happy wishes sent your way.