Hi Deb , thankyou for your kind words. both myself and my best friend animailito have been through a lot and have still got a long way to go. same as a lot of people on here, I hope you find the strength for your troubles to. The only reason I haven't blocked his number is because I tried that before and it made him worse, He would wait outside work for me and follow me everywhere. I cant change my number either as I have a small business and my number is advertised.

Do girls do that too???
Do girls come back and go nuts like that?
This is the first time I have ever had my heart broken THIS bad... And this is the first time it has ever been because someone is so freaking bad....
I keep wondering if something like this will happen to me.... Not sure if I want it to happen but can't help wonder.

Do girls do what ?

What your husband is doing...
What my ex will never do...

Try to find me.

Its awful. you wouldn't like it. Its like having a stalker. can be scarey

Hahahahahaha..... I am Laughing so hard right now:
I just got a text from my friend saying: "Dude. You can't see your NEXT if you are too busy looking at your EX. Move the fuck on."
I just had to laugh. AND share it with you.

It is very scary. Its like a volcano waiting to erupt, or a wild animal, you don't know what they will do next, and you don't feel safe. Its like they have gone insane and there is no reasoning with them. You can look into filing a restraining order. I don't know if a threat has to be made, but I don't think so, do you FEEL threatened? Does he intimidate you when hes angry, does he fly off the handle? I think you need to be careful. Not to scare you in any way, but you have to be firm in your no, then protect yourself if he gets worse. HUGE HUG

I agree ....his bavior is borderline and I would take it seriously because I have gone through this and itdidnt end very well for me. The fact that he even showed up on your doorstep is a sign of controlling and intimidating behavior in my opinion consider I get the idea you have told him not to contact you.

It can be scary. He cries and when he sees he is not getting anywhere he gets angry. He is like 2 different people.. last night I had no sleep at all. I was upset and so tired. But I just could not fall asleep. I am in work today and can't wait to get home. Another thing he did when he was with me was tease my little dog. He tried to strangle my dog and threatened to kill him. He was so jealous of my love for my dog. My dog is like a baby. I love him to bits. I had my dog before I met my husband and he has always resented the dog . I think even my dog is now happier. Nobody teasing him or kicking him

What an A**, your poor dog. He is so insecure that he cant allow you to love your dog without feeling threatened. My dad was that way. Its a wuss thing to do, they take out their anger on things that are small and cant speak up. Im so glad your dog is ok, and I am so happy for that poor baby and you that he is not living there anymore. I figured you wouldn't get much if any sleep, so don't be surprised when your emotions are right there at the surface trying to drown you. When you are exhausted and stressed and short on sleep, emotions can take over with no warning. Stay safe, and I am wishing you peace and rest today. HUGGGG (for you and the puppy)