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Ok, this may be a bit long...
Before i met my ex wife, i was 16 years old in head over heels for one of my friends at the time. I never did ask her out..then i met my ex wife.
7 years later...me and this friend that i had lost contact with, started talkin again. She too had just gotten out of an engagment. We started speaking daily, went to the movies and hung out as friends a few times, she invited me to the bar she works at for some drinks. We would always be pickin at eachother on facebook and stuff. She even came up for a long weekend to my trailer in northern Ontario. We had plan's to go see some hockey games this year, and also to see Metallica when they came in Oct. And these things were initiated by her.
So, from what i described above..in my opinion, show's possibly some interest on her part towards me. I never did ask her out because of how horrible my seperation has been, i did not want to get involved with someone so soon after.
This friend of mine invited me to the bar she works for like i said, while we were there...she mentioned to another friend of mine..but in clear ear shot of me...that she is interested in the new cook at her work, but is too shy to go talk to him. So, from THAT i took that as ok, she just wants to be friends..cool. So we said good bye at the end of the night, and i thought everything was cool. She had planned to come up north to my Trailer again that coming weekend, she texted me Friday telling me she's sick and wont be able to come. Then find out she was in a paddle boat race that weekend and won...lol.
Now, she has bailed on the hockey games we were supposed to see, and the concert. I'm just a little confused? I cannot figure it out...is she pushing me away because she just wants to be friends.. or because she does want to be more and im not making any moves or indication myself? ugh...I dunno..I just need someone eles input on this...maybe help me see the whole picture a bit better?
I know this was a little bit a ramble...sorry =/
Before i met my ex wife, i was 16 years old in head over heels for one of my friends at the time. I never did ask her out..then i met my ex wife.
7 years later...me and this friend that i had lost contact with, started talkin again. She too had just gotten out of an engagment. We started speaking daily, went to the movies and hung out as friends a few times, she invited me to the bar she works at for some drinks. We would always be pickin at eachother on facebook and stuff. She even came up for a long weekend to my trailer in northern Ontario. We had plan's to go see some hockey games this year, and also to see Metallica when they came in Oct. And these things were initiated by her.
So, from what i described above..in my opinion, show's possibly some interest on her part towards me. I never did ask her out because of how horrible my seperation has been, i did not want to get involved with someone so soon after.
This friend of mine invited me to the bar she works for like i said, while we were there...she mentioned to another friend of mine..but in clear ear shot of me...that she is interested in the new cook at her work, but is too shy to go talk to him. So, from THAT i took that as ok, she just wants to be friends..cool. So we said good bye at the end of the night, and i thought everything was cool. She had planned to come up north to my Trailer again that coming weekend, she texted me Friday telling me she's sick and wont be able to come. Then find out she was in a paddle boat race that weekend and won...lol.
Now, she has bailed on the hockey games we were supposed to see, and the concert. I'm just a little confused? I cannot figure it out...is she pushing me away because she just wants to be friends.. or because she does want to be more and im not making any moves or indication myself? ugh...I dunno..I just need someone eles input on this...maybe help me see the whole picture a bit better?
I know this was a little bit a ramble...sorry =/
Bottom Line, be yourself. Vast majority of the time it is the woman's choice. Nothing you can do will make her change her choice. If a woman likes you you will know it. If not, grab a good book or go for a run or something.
Good Luck
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