Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm not one to open up about my feelings but I feel like I need to talk about it to make it better. My ex-husband and I were high school sweethearts, been together since grade school. We have been together for almost 7 years. Got married last July and it was the absolute best for a little bit. Until the day he was with someone else. I was more disappointed than anything and our marriage ended. We are still currently married and working towards divorce. I recently had contact with him and he said he is willing to get this done with, which is what I have wanted for a long time. But something just doesn't seem right about any of this. I don't understand why I feel so upset about this more than joy. I just want this nightmare over with.
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I've been on high dose prednisone for pneumonia, and now I am slowly weaning. But lots of symptoms I don't like having, plus overeating has put at least 10 lbs on me. The food is "loud" as the GLP-1 users refer to it.Also pressured speech. Which comes out in my posts. Sorry I posted so much. I just need an outlet for my agitated and irritable brain. Just scroll on by my posts, if they are too...
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Has anyone heard from Jenn, she had an adult son with aspergers, Eric, they lived a long time with her grandmother, then they moved into an apartment. She had a funny little picture if I recall of a short dark haird woman as part of her name in a red dress.There are so many people who have dropped away from this room...I wonder where they are, and miss them. Wishing that DS could become what it...
relationship. You feel like a failure no matter whose fault
it is. I said my vows and was in for a lifetime and i meant
them he changed the game plan.
He wanted out and was no longer committed In making
the marriage work. When they do that they are checked
Out emotionally and long gone mentally.
Cheating is A choice most of the time, its usually been
brewing for Awhile and your stbx was ready to go. If they
no longer love You, they no longer respect you then they
Will Often cheat as a way out the door and to not be alone.
Going to www.divorcecare.org will help a lot with dealing with
The grief and the divorce process. Talk to a therapist to help
You cope and guide you. There are a lot of hard emotions and
Feelings to move thru and to face. The grief is pretty intense.
I had no joy over my separation and it had been bad for 12 years.
It still did not negate all the feelings of rejection, betrayal, hurt and
pain. I believed in us before the bad started, my heart hurt and
That takes awhile to heal, HUGS
Its recommended to Wait a year or longer after
the divorce to consider dating. I am two years
post Divorce and not ready yet. You should get
to know yourself as a single person and learn how
to be alone and to be okay with that.
People like to judge you and your grief when you
are divorcing.. Like get over It already and move on
and put a huge smile On your face. Your grief makes
them Uncomfortable. This journey is about you not
them and what makes them feel comfortable.
I do not get the feeling of judging from people now but
i did, i appear happier And more normal on the surface.
I am not Cured, i pray for indifference.
I do hope you get into therapy and join a divorce care
Group. I went multiple times and for as long as i needed
to and i took all the healthy help, love and support i could
find. To get better and move thru all the powerful feelings
And emotions and to detach from my ex.
You have had huge changes so be extra gentle and kind to
yourself. Moving and divorcing are stress filled events, HUGS