Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Hello group


its been a long time since I've spoken on here, and I just wanted to clear my mind. A little over a year ago I came to this group broken and hurt from my Ex leaving me and getting a new guy. I wasn't sure if I would make it pass the end of last year. But this group and the friends I've had in here helped a lot. Before this group, I really felt alone. I felt like no one else in the whole world was going through what I was going through. I was glad to see it was people out here who understood my pain and my story. Even though I'm much better now, I still miss my ex and at times, hope I would see her again. Its strange that a person can want someone or something even though they know it's not good for them. But I guess that's life.


i wish everyone in this group the best as you all go through your process and journey to recovery. I wish I knew what to say that could make the pain end quickly. But since I don't I just say this, try your best not to give up, and know your not alone

Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
hugs my friend. You are still at the starting gate. You need to focus on yourself. Need to put yourself first. Learn to love, honour and respect the number one person, that is you. You can be your own best friend forever. Learn to like being by yourself. No Contact is the way to go. I hope you have your own lawyer and a good therapist. You sound that you are going forward. They say it take one year for every 4 or 5 years of a relationship to move on, to heal. It took me over 5 years to really start feeling like myself. Sometimes, we have to take a step back to see how far we have gotten. When you see her, just smile, turn around and walk away. I hope you are not following her on any social media. Remember this, "if they can do it with you, they can do it to you" hugs again and stay safe and strong.
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