Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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MTGrl 08/29/2016

...My mind tells me..Keep the door shut. He emotionally abandoned you..betrayed you..cheated on you..took you for granted...lied to you..and rejected you.

My heart says..he is my beloved..my best friend..my soul mate. I want him back..I miss him so much it physically hurts.

My mind reminds my heart that obviously he didn't feel the same or else he wouldn't have done what he did.

My heart continues to break..knowing that my mind is right.

And so it goes..on..and on..and on..

samantha717 08/29/2016

You don't miss him. You miss the feelings he gave you ... the feelings of being loved and wanted. I forgot ... are you in counseling? If not, this would be a good time to start. Hang in there! I know it doesn't feel good, but you are doing the right thing by not contacting him.

MTGrl 08/29/2016

@ Samantha..I didn't think of it that way. But it makes sense. I'm not in counseling because I'm unemployed (at the moment) and can't afford it.

mirandac 08/29/2016

Let yourself grieve your losses and going To a
therapist helps a lot too if you are not going. I go
to other support Groups also, anything to work
thru This and Get to the other side. HUGS

MTGrl 08/29/2016

@ Mirandac...What support groups do you suggest?

mirandac 08/30/2016

I went to divorce care multiple times and i also
attend Alanon And now i go to church too. I am
Spiritual not religious and it helps me a lot. HUGS

MTGrl 08/30/2016

@Mirandac...Hey sista...I have a relationship with Jesus, too! =D

mirandac 08/30/2016

It does help a lot but i still have to do my own
Inner work and move thru all the muck. HUGS

MTGrl 08/30/2016

Minidogs2 08/30/2016

Depending on God for grace, forgiveness and strength to get through this has been the most important thing for me. Going to a divorcecare group has also helped a lot, and it is free.

anna_bella.tt 08/30/2016

I am in the same position as you are... Its a long battle, a struggle, to fight it. Some days I am all about investing in myself and other days I'm all lamenting over him. Take it one day at a time my dear.

Ctrevarrow 08/30/2016

I know those exact feelings, she cheated on me she lied and abused our relationship but i still cant seem to want to hate them. When i look at her face i don't see the liar the cheater i see the woman i fell in love with the woman i held on those cold nights. Keep thinking one more try i can save them. Truth is, we are fooling ourselves into believing something that isn't true most likely cause the truth hurts to much to face.

lonelygal27 08/30/2016

I know the feeling, hung on too long in the dilemma and it has destroyed me. I done regret the relationship or the shared time, just the timing of letting go. Held on too long.

MTGrl 08/30/2016

I know that the choice I made to end the relationship was the correct choice. Its just so stinking painful. Bleh....

CenteredInSelf 09/04/2016

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WhatHappened88 09/06/2016

You put into words exactly what I'm feeling. I've been struggling with this for five years and I don't know how to get past it. I hurt all the time. I'm sorry you're going through this too.

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