so this is my first post but I’m seeking advice from anyone who isn’t family or friends. So my husband and I have been married for 2.5 years and been together almost 6 total and in that time he hasn’t always been the most trustworthy, as I constantly caught him talking to other females but nothing more serious then looking for attention at the time. Well I start having that “gut feeling” and looked into his phone and stumbles across him and this woman having an affair for 6 months before I even found out. I was devastated as we have one son and I am a stay at home parent so I relied solely on my husband. I thought we were a team. I hated him but still tried to mend our marriage. We did the marriage counseling for 6 months and it didn’t help but I decided to forgive him and move on. I never brought it up again but I got that feeling again and he has been deleting everything from his phone.. it just feels off.. I don’t know what to do.. i feel like I keep trying and he doesn’t think I’ll leave because I can’t leave him.. some days are better than others but I feel myself slipping into depression and my husband doesn’t seem to notice
I’m new to the group and was happy to see this type of group online. I have an AH who doesn’t admit he has a problem. He comes home at random late times serveral times a month and “works” late often. In the past week he has not come home until the next morning twice. He blames me for his bad behavior and like an idiot I feel bad and let him get away with whatever he wants. I really have...
im losing it. Idk what to do. I want it all to end I dont want to be like this i dont want to keep feeling like this.