Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So, some of you may not know that my ex-fiance had a son that I helped raise from birth. His ex and him broke up way before his son was born and so I stepped in as the step mother roll the minute he was born. We were together 7 years and I developed a good relationship with his son. His son's mother texted me yesterday telling me that Adrian (her son) just found out about the break up and started crying because he wasn't going to be seeing me anymore. My heart sank and I had a break down. She told me we can still see each other (he lives an hour away), and that we can work through the details. I appreciate that, but it still hurt. Of course that ended up making me reach out to my ex to tell him how much this upset me and he agreed it broke his heart as well. He admitted that he should have handled it differently and told me he was unhappy when he was years ago, but that can't change anything now. He hurt not only me, but also Adrian.
I also found out that he took his new love to the place he took me for our 3rd anniversary. That was just the cherry on top.
I can not stress enough how much therapy and joining a divorce group can help. This is a learning curve you just can not prepare for. It's never easy. Affairs, lies, abuse is all too much to handle alone.
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