Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
This is my first post. I feel like I don't have anyone to talk too. I don't like discussing my issues with family or friends but I am hurting so much and I have no one to talk too. I have been married for 23 years. Usually ups and downs, except for this last year. I started to write about all my husband's imperfections but this is about me and not him. I don't know what to do. Part of me is saying this is it. There are no more routes except divorce. I like being married and having someone to sleep with, someone to go out with, someone to talk too but now we don't do any of that. At what point do I say its been long enough and we just need to move on? Do I give it another week? month? I am unhappy, lost, and in limbo. :(
To all of us who are struggling to find that happy life we are missing perhaps we should form our own support group......
We could call ourselves the Glorious Ladies After Happiness.....the GLAH girls.
I don't know about the rest of you but even though I know what I want and need to do I go back and forth...hubby is nice....I feel guilty and like I should just settle again. I need the courage and strength.....and an occasional head slap and gentle prodding from you all to get me focused and back on course.
Do I have any volunteers?
(PS Forgive me, I do have a silly sense of humor sometimes. It has helped me at times over the years)
I really do hope we all may find that courage and remember we should not settle for crumbs but go after the happiness we DO deserve.